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I apologize if this is a little late. I read everything up to last night and It took me a bit to find a way to respond. I want to say thanks to everyone's advice (and comments, haha).
After this morning, it hit me a bit with her. I love this lady, and she is definitely making an effort. But you guys are right. It may compound things and I told her. Again, I appreciate everyone's advice.
I've been in the Navy for six years, serving half in a hospital, the other half with Marines. I have had good relationships, felt at best helping others, but after a couple of incidents last year, it started chipping away at my confidence and my being, but being hypocritical, I didn't follow my own advice or that of my friends' until recently. It is true, I do want to help her, but figure I need to slow down and stay away for a bit.
Again, I just wanted to thank everyone for their advice and such and reminding me that hard choices and advice is still the way to go!