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Old 05-21-2018, 06:08 PM
 
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A general question, if a guy has something brand new right in front of his face that he never had or has only had for some months why would he want something he already had again? If a guy finally gets the girl he clearly wanted while with his old girl why would something old/what he already had still entice him? He couldn’t have been satisfied with her if he cheated anyway so why would he want her back in that way?
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Old 05-21-2018, 06:17 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Because. He. is. a. cheater.

If he will cheat with you, he will cheat ON you.

To a habitual and selfish cheater, no one is "special" enough to change them.

End of story.
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Old 05-21-2018, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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That's cold-blooded. Is he still living in the house with you and your mom?
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Old 05-21-2018, 07:22 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Because its sex. Duh.
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Old 05-21-2018, 07:37 PM
 
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A general question, if a guy has something brand new right in front of his face that he never had or has only had for some months why would he want something he already had again? If a guy finally gets the girl he clearly wanted while with his old girl why would something old/what he already had still entice him? He couldn’t have been satisfied with her if he cheated anyway so why would he want her back in that way?
For the same reason a dog licks his ball - BECAUSE HE CAN.
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Old 05-21-2018, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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A general question, if a guy has something brand new right in front of his face that he never had or has only had for some months why would he want something he already had again? If a guy finally gets the girl he clearly wanted while with his old girl why would something old/what he already had still entice him? He couldn’t have been satisfied with her if he cheated anyway so why would he want her back in that way?
Oh, that's easy. When comes to sex guys are not particularly picky. Old, young, attractive, ugly, fat, married, single, color, ethnicity, sex doll, goat... it doesn't really matter.
As long they can get laid..
Your guy don't want you back, he just wants sex.
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Old 05-21-2018, 08:10 PM
 
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I’m not the ex I’m his new girl and just don’t get why he wants to be with her in that way again as if I don’t exist.
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Old 05-21-2018, 08:12 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I’m not the ex I’m his new girl and just don’t get why he wants to be with her in that way again as if I don’t exist.
We know you're the new girl.

Because he doesn't really care about the people. Like elnina said, he just wants sex.

Is he still living with you and your mom?
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Old 05-21-2018, 08:23 PM
 
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Maybe he just needed a place to live and he's using you.
if you know for a fact he wants sex with his ex and you think you're in a committed relationship, then just cut him loose, nothing will change.
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Old 05-21-2018, 08:25 PM
 
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Yes he was, but we have been in Memphis with his real mother. His step mom and his real dad raised him in Chicago so he took me to go see his real mother in Memphis and we’ve been here for a week but he has been talking to her since we’ve been here. Yea I was a side at one point but that hasn’t been the case for the past seven months it shouldn’t be that hard to not pursue her for sex. It couldn’t have been that good if he cheated on her with me and from what I know she wasn’t even experienced he was her first for pretty much everything. I’m only 18 and she’s close to his age like 21 or something and I’m more experienced than her.
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