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Me and my wife have been married seven years we both have depression and anxiety.
Two and a half years I moved out for space but we still saw each other on weekends I moved back in after four months in for six months moved out again only couple miles away for six months we still saw each other then moved back in and moved out a third time after being moved in for two months but it was more planned . I was gonna move out of state see if I can find what was missing and she would come see me on vacation and maybe move down if thinks got better.
This was a dumb plan and only lasted two weeks and we are thinking to stop all this moving and move back together and enjoy life. We are best friends don't have a lit if family and consider each other family.
I skipped a lot because I am not talking about relationships my issue is I am embarrassed to ask landlord if I can move in we are good tenants but I am mortified that we lived there four years and this will be my third time moving in the first to times he was fine but. I am not sure about a third time and I am not in the lease because we thought she would be moving with me. So I would have to be added to lease. Is this my anxiety making me embarrassed to even ask to move back in or is it rational to think that I should not consider moving back in a third time.
You clearly need to get it together with the constant moving in and out ....but being embarrassed to ask the landlord a third time should be the least of your worries. I'm sure they've seen their fair share of couple(s) drama. As long as the rent is paid on time, no damages to the property is reported..carry on.
No children the thing is we do not fight or any thing we get a long we just make stupid decisions and think to much for instance my wife told me there was someone better out there for me and she was not good enough. So this is a low confidence issue but I am trying to raise her confidence. Well I am out if state right now and planning to stop at grandparents house for two weeks to try and make a decision.
No children the thing is we do not fight or any thing we get a long we just make stupid decisions and think to much for instance my wife told me there was someone better out there for me and she was not good enough. So this is a low confidence issue but I am trying to raise her confidence. Well I am out if state right now and planning to stop at grandparents house for two weeks to try and make a decision.
You need to raise your own confidence level and forget about hers.
My wife is a very good person and we are lower middle aged and she wants kids so I am very stressed . I am open to kids if we stabilazed our relationship for at least one year and the Outlook is good.
Or since I am out if state should I just stay out of state meet another women and see what happens?
I have never been with another women while I have been with my wife but I almost feel she wants me to go out there and see if the grass is greener on the other side so if I do decide to cone back to her she will know there us no one else out there for me.
I am aware this is disfunctional .
Me and my wife are a little isolated so we make these decisions together without others input . She does not talk to her friends about it. I am embarrassed to tell friends about it.
So I think our anxieties and thinking too much put us into these situations when I think we could be good for each other if we could each find our own happiness . I don't think we have cidepedency niether one of us uses drugs or drinks or has any bad moral habit
I think Rambo would not give up on relationship lol.
I am really in a messed up situation I am in my upper thirties in Tampa in a hotel. Could not sign the lease had a panic attack and now headed to grandparents for two weeks in North Carolina . I guess Rambo would go in the hills for a couple weeks and try to clear his head and then I. Was thinking to tell wife this is too much we need to either divorce or get stay together.
I feel if I was divorced and not in limbo I would not have a problem relocating but when I was in Tampa I was trying to think if it would be good for us not me.
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