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So, my ex girlfriend broke up with me about 1 year ago after being together and living together for about 8 months. We kept in contact, went out for dinner a couple of times and had sex after the breakup. But shortly after she started seeing her old boyfriend, they got engaged shortly after that. A couple months ago people started telling me that things are not that great in her new relationship and that she doesn’t really like her new boyfriend that much and their planed weeding is not happening. Have also recently been told by one of her best girlfriend, how happens to be my brothers girlfriend, that she has been talking about me for weeks and is finding it hard to see me. The same best friend to my ex gf have now told me that my ex gf and her boyfriend/fiancé have ended their relationship and she has moved back home to the same city where I live. Her friend also told me to be a little bit “cool”, guess she means that I should not start pursuing my ex even though she is now single but wait? So what does all this mean and what should I to do as I still have very strong feelings for me ex girlfriend and would like us to get back together. Any suggestion?
Ex GF sounds needy because she jumps from relationship to relationship. So, that's an indication that she is not looking for someone (a specific, wonderful guy), she looking for anyone because she can't be alone. Not trying to be rude or harsh here, but that cannot make you feel special to her.
Don't do it dude; stay away from her and any other needy, clingy or desperate women. They will suck the emotional life out of you. You deserve better; now go find it.
So, my ex girlfriend broke up with me about 1 year ago after being together and living together for about 8 months. We kept in contact, went out for dinner a couple of times and had sex after the breakup. But shortly after she started seeing her old boyfriend, they got engaged shortly after that. A couple months ago people started telling me that things are not that great in her new relationship and that she doesn’t really like her new boyfriend that much and their planed weeding is not happening. Have also recently been told by one of her best girlfriend, how happens to be my brothers girlfriend, that she has been talking about me for weeks and is finding it hard to see me. The same best friend to my ex gf have now told me that my ex gf and her boyfriend/fiancé have ended their relationship and she has moved back home to the same city where I live. Her friend also told me to be a little bit “cool”, guess she means that I should not start pursuing my ex even though she is now single but wait? So what does all this mean and what should I to do as I still have very strong feelings for me ex girlfriend and would like us to get back together. Any suggestion?
OK, so, it's telling that you call this her "new relationship" when she has already been with him longer than the entirety of yours.
Are you having trouble letting go, OP? What exactly was your relationship? Was it sexual in nature?
I initially had trouble letting go but ones she and her old boyfriend got engaged I was able to let I go. My feelings for my ex have reappeared ones I was told that she has been talking about me a lot and when I was told shes now single. We started living together after just a couple of months so we spend a lot of time together, we have a lot of common interest etc. And yes it was definitely sexual in nature.
I initially had trouble letting go but ones she and her old boyfriend got engaged I was able to let I go. My feelings for my ex have reappeared ones I was told that she has been talking about me a lot and when I was told shes now single. We started living together after just a couple of months so we spend a lot of time together, we have a lot of common interest etc. And yes it was definitely sexual in nature.
In your original post you said you heard "she doesn't like her new boyfriend" and then you say you heard she was single. That doesn't sound like the same thing.
I first started hearing about my ex not liking her now old boyfriend about 6 months ago, and about 1 week ago was told that she is now single and have moved back home. I’m 100 % sure she is single. The main reason for the break up was lack of communication and being open from my part, which made her think that we have different goals and values.
Ex girlfriend now single, have been talking about me a lot. How do I get her back?
My ex gf broke up with me about 1 year ago after being together and living together for about 8 months. We kept in contact, went out for dinner a couple of times and had sex after the breakup. But shortly after she started seeing her old boyfriend. About 6 months ago people started telling me that things are not that great in her new relationship and that she doesn’t really like her new boyfriend that much and their planed weeding is not happening. Have also recently been told by one of her best girlfriend, how happens to be my brothers girlfriend, that she has been talking a lot about me for weeks and is finding it hard to see me. The same best friend to my ex gf have now told me that my ex gf and her boyfriend/fiancé have ended their relationship and she has moved back home to the same city where I live. Her friend also told me to be a little bit “cool” and that everything is a bit up-side-down for her and she needs to be left alone in order to think. I still have very strong feelings for me ex gf and would like us to get back together, but will of course leave her alone for now. Have been thinking a lot after the breakup and have realised that my lack of communication and being open together with me becoming a bit of a doormat was a big part of her leaving me. So what does all this mean? How do I know if she also has similar feelings as I do? How long should I wait?
Do you think posting this twice will get you any better answers than it did a few days ago?
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Ex girlfriend now single, have been talking about me a lot. How do I get her back?
