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Old 11-22-2018, 05:43 PM
 
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At what point in a dating relationship do you stop dating other people or seeking other relationships.

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Old 11-22-2018, 05:47 PM
 
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no ring.
no date.
you (and she)
are (is) as free as the wind.
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Old 11-22-2018, 06:06 PM
 
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I’m starting to get kind of serious with a girl I’ve been dating. It’s obvious she really like me and it is headed towards something exclusive and serious. We’re sleeping together and it’s been about 2 months of dating. Still no talks about being exclusive though. I’ve been in contact with another girl through a dating app that seems pretty awesome also, and I plan on meeting her, but feel a little guilt about it.

My question is on your own personal standards in the issue. Mine are you’re free to date others until it’s official and you’ve had the talk. Even if I feel a little guilty. If you’re not my GF, I can still date others. Thoughts?
Dating for 2 months and sleeping together, it sure sounds to me like she's your girlfriend.

There's a reason you feel guilt meeting up with someone else. Because it's cheating.
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Old 11-22-2018, 06:07 PM
 
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You’re seeing a girl for two months AND your sleeping with her and you say you’re not exclusive?

Am I missing something here?
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Old 11-22-2018, 06:08 PM
 
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I detest the notion that someone is another person's property. Why does everyone live by the concept that you must blow out one candle before lighting another when TWO candles burn twice as bright!!!

My answer is NEVER.I
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Old 11-22-2018, 06:17 PM
 
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I detest the notion that someone is another person's property. Why does everyone live by the concept that you must blow out one candle before lighting another when TWO candles burn twice as bright!!!

My answer is NEVER.I
Good analogy.

Hey, look at our numbers. You joined here the very same year and month.

Of course you’re smoking me on reps and posts. Haha.
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Old 11-22-2018, 06:22 PM
 
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I’m guessing the people saying it’s cheating are female. I also specifically asked what you thought was acceptable. Not to comment on my situation. My standards are set and not changing.
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Old 11-22-2018, 06:25 PM
 
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But you put your situation on the forum....asking us to comment. You could've just asked the question straight out without putting yourself out there.

Don't ask for what you don't want.

I say it's time when I'm no longer interested in pursuing anyone else.
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Old 11-22-2018, 06:26 PM
 
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I’m guessing the people saying it’s cheating are female. I also specifically asked what you thought was acceptable. Not to comment on my situation. My standards are set and not changing.
I’m male and I think you should ask the girl you’re sleeping with if she minds you are talking with the other girl on that app.
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Old 11-22-2018, 06:31 PM
 
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Just based purely on the information you've provided, you say things are getting serious and heading toward exclusivity, so it's somewhat confusing why you want to meet another woman. Do you want to be exclusive with the woman you're sleeping with, or not?

You haven't had a discussion to form an agreement of exclusivity, but since you're sleeping with her, a discussion to clarify that you're NOT exclusive would be the right thing to do.
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