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This may be the most unique virgin story you’ve heard:
To start off I am from a strict catholic upbringing , I never had “ the talk” and my parents were very much against me going out a lot.
Was essentially a mute ( antisocial) until the 8th grade then I broke out became popular and girls gave me attention in high school.
Had two girlfriends in high school that both had asked me out , one lasted 8 months the other about a year. I’m not sure what it was a lot of girls were in to me some made very blatant sexual advances but I didn’t pursue further.
At 16 I went all the way with a girl she had a condom for me but I didn’t want to do it , girl was very attractive I just didn’t want to. By age 18 had done everything but PIV.
All in all at age 24 I’ve made out with between 25-30 girls , done everything but PIV with 8 girls ( oral , heavy petting ,etc.) so attraction has never been an issue I know that I have been desirable to other girls. In fact, in college I avoided chasing girls because I thought I would get a reputation as a guy who wouldn’t go all the way with a girl.
When people picture a virgin they think of an ugly guy with no friends but this is not me. I am a bit of a shy introverted guy but have a large network. I’ve never lacked confidence about my virginity either in fact , when you see how desperate other guys are to get with just any girl it gives you a confidence boost.
This was entirely my decision but your upbringing plays a huge role on who you become and I always had the voice in the back of my head that sleeping around wasn’t what I wanted. I missed many opportunities with great girls but this has made me the guy I’m proud of today.
At this point I hope a girl can understand my decision and I’m not at the point where I would wait until marriage but in a relationship ,ladies would you see me as a turn off or would you date me?
This may be the most unique virgin story you’ve heard:
To start off I am from a strict catholic upbringing , I never had “ the talk” and my parents were very much against me going out a lot.
Was essentially a mute ( antisocial) until the 8th grade then I broke out became popular and girls gave me attention in high school.
Had two girlfriends in high school that both had asked me out , one lasted 8 months the other about a year. I’m not sure what it was a lot of girls were in to me some made very blatant sexual advances but I didn’t pursue further.
At 16 I went all the way with a girl she had a condom for me but I didn’t want to do it , girl was very attractive I just didn’t want to. By age 18 had done everything but PIV.
All in all at age 24 I’ve made out with between 25-30 girls , done everything but PIV with 8 girls ( oral , heavy petting ,etc.) so attraction has never been an issue I know that I have been desirable to other girls. In fact, in college I avoided chasing girls because I thought I would get a reputation as a guy who wouldn’t go all the way with a girl.
When people picture a virgin they think of an ugly guy with no friends but this is not me. I am a bit of a shy introverted guy but have a large network. I’ve never lacked confidence about my virginity either in fact , when you see how desperate other guys are to get with just any girl it gives you a confidence boost.
This was entirely my decision but your upbringing plays a huge role on who you become and I always had the voice in the back of my head that sleeping around wasn’t what I wanted. I missed many opportunities with great girls but this has made me the guy I’m proud of today.
At this point I hope a girl can understand my decision and I’m not at the point where I would wait until marriage but in a relationship ,ladies would you see me as a turn off or would you date me?
I would of course believe it, but not for the reasons you state.
This kind of aversion is common in guys who’ve had super strict, bordering on abusive religious upbringing.
I wouldn’t date you because I believe your psychological issues would cause problems with sex even after you give yourself permission to have it.
So you've done everything sexual under the sun except actual PIV sex and you think this makes you sexually inexperienced??? Oh dear, we need to talk about your misconceptions...
Why do you NOT want to have sex? You cited your religious upbringing, but is that guilt-based or for particular reasons? When will you want to?
Are you really proud of your choice? Just trying to ascertain your mindset.
For a while , I was proud of my choice it took a lot of discipline but this past year my parents have gone thru a nasty divorce and I have rethought my choice and am ready to have sex.
I mentioned those past situations to show that I'm not undesired as most think a virgin is , most guys are pushing frequently to get it done with , I was the opposite I avoided it, wanted to have sex only in a serious relationship.
Last edited by Dpanvy254; 01-05-2019 at 09:41 AM..
^^^ For a while , I was proud of my choice it took a lot of discipline but this past year my parents have gone thru a nasty divorce and I have rethought my choice and am ready to have sex.
I mentioned those past situations to show that I'm not undesired as most think a virgin is , most guys are pushing frequently to get it done with , I was the opposite I avoided it, wanted to have sex only in a serious relationship.
You have an unhealthy attitude about sex. You have accepted the things you were taught: sex is bad, refraining is something to be proud of. Personally, I do not date men with unhealthy attitudes about sex. Good sex is just too important to me.
You have an unhealthy attitude about sex. You have accepted the things you were taught: sex is bad, refraining is something to be proud of. Personally, I do not date men with unhealthy attitudes about sex. Good sex is just too important to me.
Yeah , I understand this and expect it. I’ve begun changing my views I’m not a prude by any chance it’s not that I don’t like the idea of sex. I would be interested in exploring and learning in a relationship.
Honestly I was late to that sexual development a lot of my friends had the interest while watching porn beginning at ages 10-12, believe it or not I was 17 when I was first watched it.
Just do it and see what happens before you reach any firm conclusions.
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