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So I saw my ex a month ago, we gave each other awkward looks and I added him on facebook to show no hard feelings. Anyways, after awhile he saw me in uni and came up to me and started talking, than right after that he started texting me. We kept talking and it sounded as if we were flirting I told him my wallpaper is that of an angel and he said "must be you cause you said Angel". Later on I left and went to the library, he asked me if I was there (guess he saw me) and than came up to me and started talking in person. We started talking about Kim K and he mentioned her fake ass and pulled up a pic... Anyways after that, he started snapping me and would respond in a matter of seconds. So I snapped a picture of me sleeping with a caption relating to school. He responded "damn" to that while ignoring the chat part and I called him out for it and he's like "You look fine", I was like WDYM and he's like "hot is a better term." Anyways I noticed the girl he left me for removed posts of him on her instagram, so I assumed they broke up. I messaged him asking if he's trying to cheat or if he just recently got out of a relationship. Especially when he told me "screw relationships, its not important right now". Than he's like "don't get ur hopes up, we still together". And I got mad, I was like wtf you were the one flirting... and he claims he didn't know what else to say when asked about the "damn" comment (makes no sense, I was talking about school & NOBODY else responded to the picture snaps...). We got into a fight from there on and blocked each other. This is NOT the first time it happened. We were together in 2015, he left me for some other girl (still together with her). In 2016 he texted me out of the blue, I was still upset and hurt so I did get emotional, than we fought and he blocked. And we talked again randomly in 2017 but it was dismissed quickly. We KEEEP doing this again and again. He was my first true love... and at the time I was hurt. Anyways we always try to be friends or whatever, reconcile, fight, block each other. ALWAYS just him and I who keep doing this. The weird thing is I have never spoken or reconciled with any other ex. I don't understand why we need to establish any friendship between us, we were never friends. It was 4 god damn years ago, we were together for like 5 months & it wasn't even THAT serious. Yet there's something that just keeps making us try to reconcile: 2015,2016, 2017 & 2018..... It's a never ending cycle.
Why do you think we do it all the time? Is there a deeper meaning to all this? Who Mod cut. needs to remain friends with an ex... especially after so long & not even being close friends.
He replayed the snaps as well and I thought oh maybe, he didn't read it so wanted to. I asked him "did you not notice the spelling mistake?" Him: I was too distracted
These were the snaps I sent:
Mod cut.
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TLDR: Ex and I always try to reconcile, happened in 2015,2016,2017 & 2018. In the end we always fight and block each other. Same ex left me for another girl, 4 years ago. We were only together for 5 months & it wasn't even that serious nor were we close friends...
It's all 'cute' and 'fun' now but how silly will you feel when you eventually find out he's got a kid on the way, has a serious relationship, whatever--and you're just the fall back? When you look at all that 'cute' and 'fun' wasted time?
Why do you think we do it all the time? Is there a deeper meaning to all this? Who TF needs to remain friends with an ex... especially after so long & not even being close friends.]
You don't need to. It seems like you've allowed it so far, though. It's better to just cut him out of your life and stop agreeing to be friends with him.
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He always blocked me, I never did. But yeah this time I did block.
You're wasting your time. Also, both of you sound fairly immature. How old are you two?
Just ignore him in a future. You'll be much happier, and he will understand where you stand it.
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