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Old 12-16-2018, 05:28 AM
 
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Hi,

My names Adam, currently 22 years old. I’m currently in Australia on holiday, from London UK and I went to mothers friends 50th bday party which was outdoors. I met a girl, which turned out to be birthday boys daughter. (She’s on holiday too, also living in London) I introduced myself to her, we started talking about things, like whether she’s at university, how is she finding it etc... Shes the same age as me too. I was freezing as it was cold, and she knew I was cold, so she suggested to go inside the house. In to the house, carried on talking and laughed a lot....... End of the night, I never had the guts to ask for her number, even though I had a strong feeling she would’ve gave it to me. She’s now gone back to London as she was only here for a short time, I’m heading back 16th Jan.

It was probably the best converstation I’ve had with a girl, The thing is she’s perfect,but it’s just something about her that gives me butterflies in my stomach. Constantly I’m thinking about her, finding it hard to sleep.

NOW here are the main questions, I have found her instagram profile, should I follow her? For me to search for her instagram, does it show I’m desparate?
What will she think if I start following her? what shall I message her?

Also HOW DO I FIND OUT IF SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND OR NOT? How do I ask her over direct message?

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Old 12-16-2018, 05:36 AM
 
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Ugh...don't bother since she's "not so perfect in appearance" You'll probably just break her heart.
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Old 12-16-2018, 07:04 AM
 
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Yes, of course follow her in IG. If you meet someone special, go for it.

Tell her that you’d like to see her again, if she’s interested. There’s no harm in doing this, and your questions will all be answered. Most women think this is romantic.
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Old 12-16-2018, 09:04 AM
 
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just say hello be polite.....she will let you know if shes interested....

don't be sending body part pics …… some women get offended easily...
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Old 12-16-2018, 02:23 PM
 
Location: Morrison, CO
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The thing is she’s perfect,but it’s just something about her that gives me butterflies in my stomach. Constantly I’m thinking about her, finding it hard to sleep.
You have the Flu. Aspirin, or better yet Ibuprofen will help. Get well.
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Old 12-16-2018, 09:51 PM
 
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Thanks for the advice everyone, really appreciate it, just need to know I’m making the right move and not messing it up... I’ll be messaging her on wednesday, fingers crossed all goes well!
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Old 12-16-2018, 10:45 PM
 
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I was freezing as it was cold, and she knew I was cold, so she suggested to go inside the house.
How cold was it? (In Australia in December). I mean, I'm sure it was pretty cold, as it's usually...

cold...

in Australia...

in December.
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Old 12-16-2018, 10:52 PM
 
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You have the Flu. Aspirin, or better yet Ibuprofen will help. Get well.
Well that goes a long way towards explaining how he (a Londoner) is freezing cold in Australia in the middle of their summertime.
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Old 12-17-2018, 03:52 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Well that goes a long way towards explaining how he (a Londoner) is freezing cold in Australia in the middle of their summertime.
It gets pretty cool in the evening/night around Melbourne right now...
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Old 12-17-2018, 09:18 AM
 
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You talked to her once. And you love her SOOOOOOOOOO MUCH? How old are you?
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