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I want to share my experience with a woman I was in love for many years.A forbidden love story.She is in a relationship for 3 years, after many romantic gestures to her finally I managed to caught her attention, she came to me but I was a bit dissapointed because she stated that she was still in her relationship.I explained how I felt to her, she was confused about what to do but she started an affair with me.
During our affair I didn't rush her to make a decision but I didn't felt very good about it either because I wanted her for me only, I wasn't looking to just have fun with her.I stated that when she will make a decision I will accept it entirely.
So I dont want to expatiate, after 3 month's I discovered she was initiated another affair with another man,I caught her at his house near mine (small city),she accused me of stalking and made foolish excuses, then the next day started texting me again saying how sorry she was that she felt terrible about herself etc.After many of constant texting from her I forgave her and I accepted her back.She came to me(without again putting an end to her relationship) and for a month again we kept seeing each other as if nothing happened.
Then the same dejavu feeling ,less meetings,less communication without explanation.I asked again what was going on, "nothing " I just can't see you these days, until one day she didn't replied to a goodmorning text to me at all, I saw her at night sitting and talking to the same guy at their training ground. When I saw it I couldn't help myself to just leave once and for all, but driven from my frustration I went in there, with all the patience I could hold, I started talking to this guy for the sport and that I want to start also, when I finally talked to her in private when he left, I accused her of doing the exact same thing again and she aggressively responded that we will discuss all that at your house tomorrow once and for all.
So she came the next day, accussing me of stalking, childish behavior, irrational and that she don't owe to me any explanation because I wasn't the official relationship but the forbidden affair. I told her a lot also and that was it.She is still in her relationship, her partner haven't noticed a thing as it seems...
When the person you get involved with is cheating on someone else, don't be surprised when they begin cheating on you too.
You are absolutely right, but in this case she hypothetically came to me because of my romantic gestures to her for so many years I was deeply in love with her,she stated this and that she was so flattered by all my strive for her and that I was a very special guy,so I wasn't thinking that at the beginning...
You kind of asked for it by stealing her from the first dude who may also have been destroyed by your actions but that wasn't part of your thinking.
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