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so yesterday was my 1st birthday spent without my dad. I turned 30 today. He died in Oct after being diagnosed with leukemia 2mos prior to that . He was the only person who loved me. My boyfriend of 8 years did nothing with me today and on top of that actually called me names. I took my boyfriend to a hotel and shopping on his birthday in February. Which was after my dad died. I feel now I have no one. No one took me anywhere, I even paid for a babysitter for nothing. No one called me, took me anywhere, no gifts. My bf fought w/ me and that was that I am so depressed. I miss my dad. My bf said that on his bday when I took him to hotel that that wasn't what he wanted to do. Well at least I tried. He let me sit at home w/ nothing. I didn't even eat dinner on my bday.
So sorry for your loss, and the hurt it is causing you.
As for your boyfriend... people display the true feelings of their hearts through their actions. He dismissed and belittled the special day you planned for him, and he could not be bothered to make your birthday special. Doesn't sound like anyone who loves you to me.
Get together with friends and have some fun, and put a lot of thought into what kind of future you have with this BF. I suspect you can do a LOT better.
Life can be so cruel sometimes . I don't think there's any words of solace I can offer you in this difficult time, but I do wish you a Happy Birthday.
As far as your boyfriend, he doesn't seem very loving.
Hey, chin up, go have some dinner; you might feel better.
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Originally Posted by Checkered24
So sorry for your loss, and the hurt it is causing you.
As for your boyfriend... people display the true feelings of their hearts through their actions. He dismissed and belittled the special day you planned for him, and he could not be bothered to make your birthday special. Doesn't sound like anyone who loves you to me.
Get together with friends and have some fun, and put a lot of thought into what kind of future you have with this BF. I suspect you can do a LOT better.
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Awwww I'm sorry for both your loss and what your going through my love
Your bloke should have been there for you like a rock! And wasn't . I'm certain you don't deserve this and especially on your birthday ( happy belated birthday btw )
I really really really do hope things get better for you soon
I don't have any friends. I only have bf and my 2 kids. My mom doesn't talk to me. I have no one. So I expected him to care enough to let me feel special. He thinks I am just being a baby but I am really hurt. Feel like there's no one that even thinks about me. I am just here to pay the bills and take care of kids. My dad would of made it special.
I don't have any friends. I only have bf and my 2 kids. My mom doesn't talk to me. I have no one. So I expected him to care enough to let me feel special. He thinks I am just being a baby but I am really hurt. Feel like there's no one that even thinks about me. I am just here to pay the bills and take care of kids. My dad would of made it special.
You are special and he's badly at fault for not telling/making you feel so
Thank you I just feel like what did I do to deserve feeling like I don't matter to anyone. Who sits home and feels like this on their 30th bday. I never even ate dinner. How pathetic I am
Thank u for all of your nice comments. I seen your pics of london. Wish I could of spent my 30th bday there. It's gorgeous
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. I don't think there's any words of solace I can offer you in this difficult time, but I do wish you a Happy Birthday.
