Strange question...would you be more attacted to a man who already has a mate?

[CaydenJ]

Originally Posted by 70Ford

I know, it is sort of a weird question...but here goes.

Would you consider a man who has a mate more or less (or neither more nor less) attractive than that same man, were he single?

If so, why?

I don't know. You'd have to ask Angelina Jollie. She's a pro at this.

[Whyte Byrd]

No.

[alicejb]

Originally Posted by 70Ford

I know, it is sort of a weird question...but here goes.

Would you consider a man who has a mate more or less (or neither more nor less) attractive than that same man, were he single?

If so, why?

This seems to be a normal phenomenon w/ the opposite sexes. When you're with someone and you radiate contentment and happiness, it seems to be a pull for the opposite sex. They're attracted to the fact that someone else finds you attractive enough to want to be with you. Plus this anomaly of wanting something you can't have.

[alicejb]

Originally Posted by CaydenJ

I don't know. You'd have to ask Angelina Jollie. She's a pro at this.

Oh my word, Saint Angelina!! She's saving the world right now don't you know? Blasphemy you...the Brangaloonies will be coming for you..hide, hide!!

[ChessieMom]

Who keeps reviving these old threads???
This post is almost a year old folks.

[Ivorytickler]

Originally Posted by 70Ford

I know, it is sort of a weird question...but here goes.

Would you consider a man who has a mate more or less (or neither more nor less) attractive than that same man, were he single?

If so, why?

Logically or biologically? Logically, no. Biologically, I think we're programmed to compete to spread our genes and look for the best possible partner to pair up with and that means eliminating the competition. Fortunately, I think logic wins.

[Tropical Trouble]

Originally Posted by ChessieMom

Who keeps reviving these old threads???
This post is almost a year old folks.

The same person is responsible for most of the old threads popping up. New topics are getting lost in the crowd of the oldies but not goodies.

[optiflex]

Originally Posted by 70Ford

I know, it is sort of a weird question...but here goes.

Would you consider a man who has a mate more or less (or neither more nor less) attractive than that same man, were he single?

If so, why?

The ol wear a wedding ring trick...

A. you're in a bar, venue, alone and flirting. So obviously even though you're married, you're approachable.

B. You're safe, it'll be most likely a one nighter, no hassle, no strings.

C. in case of women who try to "steal one" they see you're stable, theirs wasn't and they want what she has. Why is this so common? Because woman are a catty backstabbing lot, mostly. Of course, none the goddesses who post on here!

[chazztrons]

I can not say that I would not be attracted ...but would I act on this attraction?
No, I would not.