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I think that's probably a good idea. It really does seem like he couldn't be bothered to make time for you after he realized you didn't travel there to be his sex toy for 3 days. He might also be upset about spending the 50 EUR.
So you met while on a trip and hung out together and kissed. Then you got home and decided you weren't really interested in him so you ignored him for a while. Then you got bored with life so you decided to take a trip to the country he lived in and figured he could show you around so you pretended that the reason you ignored him before was that you were busy. You fly to his country, he shows you some sights, he takes you to a dinner you think is too cheap and then he takes you home. The next two days you are now mad because he's apparently realized that he's not that interested in you either or maybe he really does have to work or maybe he really did just want sex. Either way you are now annoyed that he's texting you. Just put the guy out of his misery and text him back that you aren't seriously interested in him because clearly you are not.
So you met while on a trip and hung out together and kissed. Then you got home and decided you weren't really interested in him so you ignored him for a while. Then you got bored with life so you decided to take a trip to the country he lived in and figured he could show you around so you pretended that the reason you ignored him before was that you were busy. You fly to his country, he shows you some sights, he takes you to a dinner you think is too cheap and then he takes you home. The next two days you are now mad because he's apparently realized that he's not that interested in you either or maybe he really does have to work or maybe he really did just want sex. Either way you are now annoyed that he's texting you. Just put the guy out of his misery and text him back that you aren't seriously interested in him because clearly you are not.
I thought we may have some sparks but I couldn't feel it on our date.
I m mad because he got cold after dinner， and told me he will contact meafter work from the mornning but nothing till the night.
And now he is apologizing his job is terrible isnt it rude.
Though I wasnt there only for him but if he wasn't there I wouldn't go.
I thought we may have some sparks but I couldn't feel it on our date. I m mad because he got cold after dinner， and told me he will contact meafter work from the mornning but nothing till the night.
And now he is apologizing his job is terrible isnt it rude.
Though I wasnt there only for him but if he wasn't there I wouldn't go.
You don't see the irony in this? Isn't it EXACTLY what you did to him? Seemed to like him, lost interest and got distant, broke contact, and then later took up communication again claiming you had just been busy?
You don't see the irony in this? Isn't it EXACTLY what you did to him? Seemed to like him, lost interest and got distant, broke contact, and then later took up communication again claiming you had just been busy?
Yeah probably but when I went there he took me out for a date and then he didn't see me again.
Now he is apologizing.
The difference is I went distant when we were texting, he went distant when I was in his country.
Yeah probably but when I went there he took me out for a date and then he didn't see me again.
Now he is apologizing.
The difference is I went distant when we were texting, he went distant when I was in his country.
You shouldnt be still contacting him, he isnt interested in you anymore.
I think that's probably a good idea. It really does seem like he couldn't be bothered to make time for you after he realized you didn't travel there to be his sex toy for 3 days. He might also be upset about spending the 50 EUR.
We really don't know why he lost interest in OP. Was it sex or lack of it? Maybe. But maybe it was OP's demeanour that ticked him off.
Like I said, sex on a first date isn't really sought after in Europe. The whole dating scene is a little different there.
I believe that after talking with OP during the dinner and observing her behavior he decided that he is not going to waste more time with her, but being a gentleman he tried to make it a bit less obvious.
The rest might be OP's imagination. We only know her story...
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