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Because now he is saying,
“It’s up to me if I wanna it or not”
Basically take me for who I am?
So the problem started being last week and this week I’ve notice he was taking long time to get back to me, weather it was text messages or calls.
Plus we have not seen each other for over a week now.
For pass few months things has been good expect the Instagram thing.
We were seeing other 3 times or 2 times a week, communication was very regular and daily.
At the beginning he was slower Texter and I complained about that on here but since then he really improved.
But last week he would initiate a text or a call and when I return it, he would take either hours or until the next day.
He has explained himself or made a lot excuses for why he been like that lately.
He jumped to sort of ending things, then retracted it, that’s when he made “wonderful” comment.
Since that that day, I’ve been keeping myself busy and I been very casual towards him and the yesterday evening he send me that “forgive me, take care” message.
Then last I send him few texts, I mainly accepted the message and told him if he didn’t want to be with me she should have just say straight up instead of giving me hints.
So gets back to today saying, he didn’t say he didn’t wanna be with me, I just don’t understand him and if I can’t accept it, there is nothing he can do about it, so it’s up to you.
Honestly I truly wanna to know, especially from a guys prospective, does he sound like he genuinely want to be with me or he is just not bothered?
I never really thought his comment sounded like a breakup either.
It sounds like you are quite impatient with him, and he is telling you he is who he is, so you can either take him like that or not. But stop trying to change him, and stop expecting different.
Seem to me that putting aside the self-esteem issues that the OP has, she wants something that this guy is not. that's why she tries to change him. He got tired of it and it caused all this drama. So the OP is upset, sad, lonely and wants him back and seems willing to shut up and accept behaviors that are not compatible with what she wants in order to keep the guy. How long does anyone think that will last?
I need want him back. I’ve tried to change him when I should have accepted him for he is.
I got greedy because he improved so much from the beginning and
I kept pushing for more
I think if I didn’t say anything last night there would’ve a hope but because I literally send a lot of text messages he now thinks I’m a Psycho b.
Any man worth his salt is not going to stand for this. You blew it. Lesson learned. Move along and lick your wounds in the corner.
Listen commentators, with all due respect,
I don’t need to be psychoanalysis, either answer the question or just leave my thread alone.
Plus I’m British, we don’t all have therapist.
Slow your roll Brit. Dont ask for help on CD and get upset when folks chime in and you dont like the responses. Cant afford therapy? Buy a book.
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