Oh lookie there... I gotta bite (dating, man, single, young)
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So, I'm newly single (6 weeks now) and have not been looking to date anyone at all. I'm doing really well emotionally, as I was battling with this breakup for a good while prior to actually doing it. I mostly have great days and bad "moments" sometimes, even they are rare. So, as far as dating someone else, I am open to friendly dates only at this time. I am certainly not looking for another relationship right now, because I need a lot of alone time and have a lot going on. I really don't have the time to put into nurturing a relationship, nor do I want to right now. That may change, but right now I'm enjoying being single, although I do have times when I'd like some company for dinner or to go to a movie.
Anyway, a couple of weeks ago, I was in a sports lounge playing poker and a guy won some money, so he walked around and gave everyone there a $20 bill. The man to the left of me began conversation, and I had not been looking at anyone so really didn't notice him before. He was really cute and seemed to like me and we just sat and laughed and talked for a while. He did ask for my telephone number, which I did give him. The next night he phoned and when talking about our families he mentioned his oldest son was 51 so immediately I thought he must be in his mid 70's, unless Google proves that the Guinness Book of World Records shows him as youngest father in the world. No such luck, and I'm 62. I'm a young 62, and he is about to turn 75.
I think platonic friends is the way to go here but he is persistent in wanting to take me on a date. I'm really not interested in that right now anyway, but I feel the age difference would be a problem.
He comes by my office and calls me at work (not too often) just saying, it's just not happening for me like that.
What's the best way to get the point across without hurting his feelings? Guys, what do you think?
I personally don’t think 13 years difference should be a big deal once I passed the 50 mark. You said you think he’s cute. You wouldn’t guess he’s 75 if he didn’t tell you, right? Go ahead and enjoy his company. You may find out you like him. However, if the 13 years difference really bothers you, then cut tie with him.
She didn't know his age when she gave him her phone number. And I'd guess the convo about where she works was before the convo about his 51 year old son.
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