Shifting Toxicity (wife, married, advice, people)

[StuckPA]

So I'm miserable living here and apparently she feels the same way about work...
You would think she would understand then instead of coming at me all the time about that.
I say it's easier to leave a job than where you live.

[JeepGirl118]

I'm lost. Is there a part 1 that I missed?

[carlitasway]

Huh? Whachu talkin' 'bout Willis?

[sassyone]

Me too, I thought there was a first page that I missed.

[StuckPA]

You don't exactly have to read between the lines...I think it's summarized ok.

[JeepGirl118]

3/3 posters who think not ok.

So here is my advice based on no summary...

Er. Ya. Easier to leave a job than where you live.

[StuckPA]

Originally Posted by JeepGirl118

3/3 posters who think not ok.

Perhaps the 'nighttime regulars' here would understand better,but if I must break it down...

A)I have been miserable for years living in the place where my wife is from.

B)She doesn't seem to understand this and attacks me whenever I get depressed about it.

C)At the same time she is at a job in which she feels miserable being at and I tell her now she knows how it feels for me living here.

D)I tell her it's probably easier to switch jobs than towns.

[artsyguy]

You posters need to feel sorry for StuckPA. I do.

I can't stand people that are withholding...I'd be even more annoyed if I was married to a withholding person.

[JeepGirl118]

Originally Posted by StuckPA

Perhaps the 'nighttime regulars' here would understand better,but if I must break it down...

A)I have been miserable for years living in the place where my wife is from.

B)She doesn't seem to understand this and attacks me whenever I get depressed about it.

C)At the same time she is at a job in which she feels miserable being at and I tell her now she knows how it feels for me living here.

D)I tell her it's probably easier to switch jobs than towns.

I am a nighttime regular. Up til 3AM EST - and you still make no sense at all.

Ok, so what is the question. Just want us to agree with you that it's easier to switch jobs than a town? I really think it's easier to switch towns than a job. If she is the breadwinner, you go where the money is. A place is what you make of it. I can be thrown into the middle of Boo-Foo Egypt and still make the very best of it. Buck up.

[StuckPA]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

You posters need to feel sorry for StuckPA. I do.

I can't stand people that are withholding...I'd be even more annoyed if I was married to a withholding person.

Don't tell them that artsy,they're liable to throw it back on me somehow
No need to feel sorry,advice will suffice