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It's not a question of whether or not I leave but whether or not he/she is alive after. Seriously, I understand the need for acceptance but in situations like this it's best to be up front. If not, you just have two people with broken hearts because no matter how much you love someone, you have to be sexually attracted to them. If I'm not mistaken, a transexual hasn't gotten the surgery. With surgery they're transgendered. So in a way, that's worse because now you also have to decide if you want to be with someone of the same sex. Hiding this info is just wrong.
I'm not going to fall in love with someone I barely know, and if I know them well I already know this, i.e. I'm not waiting 6 months before I see someone naked. A month, maybe.
I'm not sure the relationship would last but I wouldn't be upset. It might add to the interest factor. Mostly it would be new adventure and possibly a new friend.
You meet someone, you fall in love, and you find out your true love is a Transexual? What would you do? Keep in mind, you are in love. Perhaps, this is the love you have been waiting for. Maybe, at first, you thought this person was a "little different," but didn't give it a second thought. You realized you had a lot in comon. It turns out, one of the reasons you get along so well, is because that person understands what it was like to be the same gender you are. What would you do?
Knew a guy who did a lot of blow, drank and was a bit of a jack the lad. One morning he calls me and says that a "gal" he slept with the day before, well he wasn't too sure "she" was a she. I ask why? He said it was the sensation he got, when he "ploughed" in it didn't go very deep... it just didn't feel like a woman. I said what did she look like. He said that's just it, when he was sober thinking back she was veeeeery tall and the voice was so so.
I knew some transexuals in this particular small city and asked around and sure enough I was told this person he slept with was originally a he.
Needless to say, he started going to AA meetings and last I heard he wasn't a partier. As the christians would say, that one particular incident, brought him to Jesus.
You meet someone, you fall in love, and you find out your true love is a Transexual? What would you do? Keep in mind, you are in love. Perhaps, this is the love you have been waiting for. Maybe, at first, you thought this person was a "little different," but didn't give it a second thought. You realized you had a lot in comon. It turns out, one of the reasons you get along so well, is because that person understands what it was like to be the same gender you are. What would you do?
I'm skipping out with Ron. Would never happen. Not in a million years.
If the tranny kept it a secret then that's a big problem. Obviously before you fall in love, the process getting there involves you getting to know that person pretty well. I would hope that a thing that big wouldn't come as a surprise but then again.... there are those who find out later... If it comes out in the beginning then obviously you are making a conscience decision to fall in love knowing the lifestyle that this person has.
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