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yankeegirl313 · 02-08-2009, 05:18 PM

I am soooo confused!

I know that I need to tell the entire story...but right now, I can`t.
I will though.....

PassTheChocolate · 02-08-2009, 05:21 PM

A condensed version?

yankeegirl313 · 02-08-2009, 05:23 PM

I am stuck! In the middle here. Don`t know which direction to turn.

Alot of confusion going on. We had a talk today, I`m still numb.

Mr.Cat · 02-08-2009, 05:25 PM

If there's still love, why not give him a second chance?

Tropical Trouble · 02-08-2009, 05:26 PM

Aren't you married? What the heck is an ex doing trying to interfere with that?

OK, OK, I'll wait to hear the story.

once-upon-chicago · 02-08-2009, 05:29 PM

So are you just IMing friends about your story?

miu · 02-08-2009, 05:32 PM

I'm confused also. I thought you were fairly happily married.

http://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...u-his-sex.html

yankeegirl313 · 02-08-2009, 05:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by miu

I'm confused also. I thought you were fairly happily married.

http://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...u-his-sex.html

I am. I was married to my ex for 14 years. He comes to me today, to tell me that he has made alot of mistakes in his life, and letting me, and my son go, was a big one! You have to understand him. Its hard for him to come out with his feelings. He is stubborn, bullheaded, like me...

And he has let 5 years just slide by, before he decided to step foward with this!
I will be remarried 3 years in May.

PassTheChocolate · 02-08-2009, 05:48 PM

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Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

I am. I was married to my ex for 14 years. He comes to me today, to tell me that he has made alot of mistakes in his life, and letting me, and my son go, was a big one! You have to understand him. Its hard for him to come out with his feelings. He is stubborn, bullheaded, like me...

And he has let 5 years just slide by, before he decided to step foward with this!
I will be remarried 3 years in May.

So, is this a thing where you thought you were over him but now you're not sure?

yankeegirl313 · 02-08-2009, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by PassTheChocolate

So, is this a thing where you thought you were over him but now you're not sure?

Thats why I am sooo confused... I don`t know.
I spent time with him today, just talking and reminiscing....
He has let me build a new life with my husband now, for years, and now, all of a sudden, he has a brain fart, and realizes what he wants out of life!
I ask him why did you wait so long?