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Old 01-15-2011, 11:22 AM
 
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So here's the deal, a good friend of mine is attending a wedding next weekend. His whole plan was to invite a girl to merely hook up with for the night (he's coming in from out of town). He had one plan that fell through, and was, according to him, going to go stag.

I get a text from him this morning, "Dude, just thought you should know, I sent a text to your (younger than 21) sister seeing if she would go with me."

Now, it's not that I have a problem with her "going out" with my friend (despite him being 7 years older than her)... but knowing his scheme... I don't want my sister in it. He's now acting like I am out of line. Am I?
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Old 01-15-2011, 11:28 AM
 
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So here's the deal, a good friend of mine is attending a wedding next weekend. His whole plan was to invite a girl to merely hook up with for the night (he's coming in from out of town). He had one plan that fell through, and was, according to him, going to go stag.

I get a text from him this morning, "Dude, just thought you should know, I sent a text to your (younger than 21) sister seeing if she would go with me."

Now, it's not that I have a problem with her "going out" with my friend (despite him being 7 years older than her)... but knowing his scheme... I don't want my sister in it. He's now acting like I am out of line. Am I?

Seriously, is your friend for real! Of course you have to tell your sister what his plan is? What kind of brother would let his sister be played. What kind of chump is your friend? Lame. Dump him as a friend and find better friends.
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Old 01-15-2011, 11:37 AM
 
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So here's the deal, a good friend of mine is attending a wedding next weekend. His whole plan was to invite a girl to merely hook up with for the night (he's coming in from out of town). He had one plan that fell through, and was, according to him, going to go stag.

I get a text from him this morning, "Dude, just thought you should know, I sent a text to your (younger than 21) sister seeing if she would go with me."

Now, it's not that I have a problem with her "going out" with my friend (despite him being 7 years older than her)... but knowing his scheme... I don't want my sister in it. He's now acting like I am out of line. Am I?
Your friend has no respect for you whatsoever. I mean, ZERO. Why would you voluntarily associate with someone like this?
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Old 01-15-2011, 11:39 AM
 
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So here's the deal, a good friend of mine is attending a wedding next weekend. His whole plan was to invite a girl to merely hook up with for the night (he's coming in from out of town). He had one plan that fell through, and was, according to him, going to go stag.

I get a text from him this morning, "Dude, just thought you should know, I sent a text to your (younger than 21) sister seeing if she would go with me."

Now, it's not that I have a problem with her "going out" with my friend (despite him being 7 years older than her)... but knowing his scheme... I don't want my sister in it. He's now acting like I am out of line. Am I?
I can't believe you're even asking this.

Dump your so-called "friend". He's an @sshole.
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Old 01-15-2011, 11:45 AM
 
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It sounds like you need new friends.
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Old 01-15-2011, 11:47 AM
 
Location: Kerkrade, Limburg, Netherlands
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It's your sisters choice.
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Old 01-15-2011, 12:01 PM
 
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It's your sister's choice who she goes out with. Your friends, however, are your own choice. Don't bother ever speaking to this guy again
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Old 01-15-2011, 12:05 PM
 
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It's your sisters choice.
After he tells her the plan of his weasel friend.
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Old 01-15-2011, 12:35 PM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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So here's the deal, a good friend of mine is attending a wedding next weekend. His whole plan was to invite a girl to merely hook up with for the night (he's coming in from out of town). He had one plan that fell through, and was, according to him, going to go stag.

I get a text from him this morning, "Dude, just thought you should know, I sent a text to your (younger than 21) sister seeing if she would go with me."

Now, it's not that I have a problem with her "going out" with my friend (despite him being 7 years older than her)... but knowing his scheme... I don't want my sister in it. He's now acting like I am out of line. Am I?
He's the one that is WAY out of line. If he was a REAL friend, he would have asked you if you would be okay with him asking your sister. He has no respect for you or your friendship.

He's an a__hole.
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Old 01-15-2011, 01:02 PM
 
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1. If some guy had told me he had intentions like this and I DIDN'T warn my sister he was a chump who just wanted to find an easy lay and disappear, I would never feel good about looking myself in the mirror again.

2. If I was friends with someone who thought of women as nothing more than a life support system for a vagina, who thought with his little head and casually announced as much in conversation, I would reevaluate my choice of friends. I'm not saying there aren't more like him in the world, or that some guys don't grow out of that phase eventually, but I'd find it a bit repulsive.
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