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I had sex with 29 different women in my lifetime, and I made love and had sex with a man who [mod cut]. I still have the list of names of people whom I made love to in my email account. Fortunately, after all these years, I am still clean and perfectly healthy. I sometimes wish that I had married years ago and started a family of my own. But honestly, I sometimes feel that I don't deserve to marry, because of my history of many sexual partners. Should I even consider marriage after all the numerous times I have engaged in sex with many people? Thanks in advance for all of your responses.
Last edited by PJSaturn; 03-23-2016 at 02:38 PM..
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Sounds like you need to see a counselor. Plus depending on your age 29 women is not a whole lot. If you are in your mid-30's that's only 1-2 women a year since you were 18. Having one experience with another man is not anything that would preclude you from having a healthy relationship with a woman. Read somewhere that it is fairly common that a percentage of men have had at least one encounter with another man. That doesn't make you gay.
I had sex with 29 different women in my lifetime, and I made love and had sex with a man who [snip]. I still have the list of names of people whom I made love to in my email account. Fortunately, after all these years, I am still clean and perfectly healthy. I sometimes wish that I had married years ago and started a family of my own. But honestly, I sometimes feel that I don't deserve to marry, because of my history of many sexual partners. Should I even consider marriage after all the numerous times I have engaged in sex with many people? Thanks in advance for all of your responses.
Other than your Rain Man tendency to document everything, I don't see the problem? As long as your bride to be is aware of your bisexuality, there is nothing "undeserving" about your history. Are you honest with her?
IF you are having issues with your past, they you need to work on that before you drag another person into the mix.
Does your prospective spouse have an issue with your past?
Honestly I don't see an issue with how many people you slept with or what you have done with them. It seems that the only problem with it is in your own mind.
This is a hypothetical question. I just recently met the woman online, so I don't know if it is a prospect.
I kept track of all the women I had sex with, because I wanted to remember the names of all the women whom I had sexual intercourse with. It was my way of remembering their names and remembering my encounters over the years. I did perform [mod cut] in college, but I didn't include him on the list. [mod cut]
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Originally Posted by GeoffD
Is the OP male or female?
I am 38 year old male, never married, and I don't have any kids.
Last edited by PJSaturn; 03-23-2016 at 02:41 PM..
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I also met 2 of her kids in person. Her other child is in foster care. One of her kids told me that their sister is in foster care after I saw the pictures in their living room at their duplex. But strangely enough, the woman whom I am seeing didn't tell me she had a daughter before meeting the kids. She told me the names of her two sons, but I don't think she told me about her daughter. I saw a picture of her daughter on her phone, but I don't think she ever told me who it was. Although, I have feelings for her, I don't know how the relationship will fare in the long run.
She came to the United States from Ukraine about 10 years ago. Her ex-husband was deported a couple years ago. She has permanent citizenship here in the United States. She wanted me to "promise boyfriend-girlfriend forever". I would love to be her boyfriend, but I don't know how long it will last. She asked numerous times why I am not married. I told her that I never found that soul mate, and I was never in a long-term relationship. The longest relationship that I was involved in was 9 months. Because the relationship was less than a year, I don't consider it to be a long-term relationship.
You don't find it the slightest bit strange that you keep a log of your "conquests"? How romantic.
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