Have you thought of someone else while with your SO

[Puru]

The only times I've thought about someone else during sex is when
A) I'm just not in the mood and just kind of chilling and thinking about random stuff like "did I let the dog out before I left? I wonder what my sister is doing this weekend" during the act. Or,
B) When I'm not really in the mood but trying to be so I fantasize about random faceless/nameless people from dirty entertainment, because I just need a little push to get my mind in the right direction.

I don't think I'd tell my SO about either of these things.

I can't recall a time I've ever fantasized about myself having sex with another person that wasn't my SO during sex.

[Boneheaded]

Once or twice. Never have told em though.

[shania]

Don't tell them. Trust me on this one. They don't want to know.

[TKramar]

Nope. If I need extra stimulation, I think of things we've already done before.

[temptation001]

I used to date a guy that once told me that while he was with me one time he had flashbacks of someone he had slept with when he was very young. He felt very guilty and told me. I didn't feel mad about it because I knew this person had meant a lot to him and it had been way too many years since he had seen this person. He didn't want to be with her, he knew that was not a possibility. This person had been his first lover, and I don't know why he suddenly had flashbacks, maybe because of what we were doing at the moment. He kept thinking it was a problem for me, but it really wasn't.

[Anneee]

NO WAY ---I talk during sex!

[temptation001]

Originally Posted by Anneee

NO WAY ---I talk during sex!

What could you possibly say?

[CaydenJ]

Yes, when I'm crushing. Attraction isn't a choice but being faithful is. I can stop my body from wandering but I can't stop my mind from lusting. lol.