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(I'm sorry if I may be repetitive but it's late & I didn't read the whole thread)
P.S. I did see the Sex & the City episode on this issue - Samantha was in love (she never falls in love) but yep, it was too small. She tried to work with it, but after counseling she finally confessed how she felt about his manhood! Not cool in real life, but frickin' hilarious TV!
Mention that maybe your not compatible in some other way. If you tell a guy you stopped seeing him because of his size, he will likely discuss a similar thought about you. The first time with someone isnt always the 'best effort'. Usually it takes a few times to figure out someones hot buttons. Being on the other side, women are of different sizes too, and they are usually willing to compensate in other areas.
That's why the preview is important. After the appropriate amount of dates, kiss him with so much passion and rub the pants. If you rub 2 inches down and that's it. You whisper goodnight and start being "unavailable" or create distance. It goes no further than that.
To be polite I would just tell him that at the time you guys met you were going through some things. "It was nice seeing you. How have you been?" Don't sit and dine with him or take any drink offers....................keep it moving.
Ya know I just scanned through the thread and read a little. All I can is while I may not be a *perfect* male specimen thank gawd that I at least am good to go in a certain manhood kind of way.
Like having a twister come through your area and your neighbors house getting destroyed and yours somehow untouched, you offer words of encouragement and try to be helpful when actually inside you are thinking thank goodness it was them not me, better them than me.
Seriously,unless you are full of hate for the guy don't be honest with that if that is the reason you don't like him, that would just crush a man's ego.
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