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Old 12-19-2013, 09:25 PM
 
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I'm professionally and financially successful. I thoroughly enjoy my life whether it's at work, with friends, seeing the world, or just hanging out. I get along great with my family. I like to keep myself fit and occasionally push myself by running mini marathons. And as far as looks, my friends say I'm a cross between Brad Pitt and Russell Crowe. My friends also describe me as easy-going, fun-loving, funny, and bit on the romantic side.

While I do want someone I find attractive I'm not overly picky. I like women of all races and backgrounds. Personality is far and away the most important thing to me. I'd like a girl with a kind heart, a gentle spirit, and certain warmth and affection. Someone who's equally happy to be out trying new things as she is spending a quiet evening at home together.

Somehow I think it shouldn't be so hard to find a girl like that, yet it is!

I ask you...WHY can't I find just one single decent woman?

I'm in the same boat. I can find sex but I can't find a women to take home to Mom. Looks aren't too important to me as long as she upkeeps herself and isn't a walrus I'm okay.
I feel your pain.

 
Old 12-20-2013, 12:44 AM
 
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I had one for 4 years till she dyed her hair blond and cheated on me, we are now divorced. Always keep an inexpensive escorts number in your phone just in case as most women can rebound much quicker and easier than most men. Women with options don't have to stay with you. When I got on POF 3 women said they did not want to be rebound girl, I doubt you hear too many guys saying that to women.

What the OP described is what every man wants, in addition to a freak in the sheets.

It is a kinda sad lonely way of life but these types of women are like unicorns. Most women by the time you are in your late 20's have a kid or 2 or a bunch of other baggage that prevent them from just being able to chill with you on the couch and have sex the way you both want it without some prudish reservations and just take trips to Hawaii just the 2 of you just because and watch the ocean and eat pineapple.

If you manage to find one without a kid, there is a high likely hood that they are going to have some serious baby fever about a year into the relationship if they can contain themselves for that long.
There are TONS of single women in their 20's, 30's, and 40's who are child free, kind, smart, and "freaks" in the sheets. But they're not necessarily the ones who look "hot". Figure out your priorities, and go from there.

btw, you said you only wanted sex twice/wk. Not sure how that fits in with wanting a freak in the sheets. Twice/week isn't going to cut it with some women.
 
Old 12-20-2013, 09:21 AM
 
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I had one for 4 years till she dyed her hair blond and cheated on me, we are now divorced. Always keep an inexpensive escorts number in your phone just in case as most women can rebound much quicker and easier than most men. Women with options don't have to stay with you. When I got on POF 3 women said they did not want to be rebound girl, I doubt you hear too many guys saying that to women.

What the OP described is what every man wants, in addition to a freak in the sheets.

It is a kinda sad lonely way of life but these types of women are like unicorns. Most women by the time you are in your late 20's have a kid or 2 or a bunch of other baggage that prevent them from just being able to chill with you on the couch and have sex the way you both want it without some prudish reservations and just take trips to Hawaii just the 2 of you just because and watch the ocean and eat pineapple.

If you manage to find one without a kid, there is a high likely hood that they are going to have some serious baby fever about a year into the relationship if they can contain themselves for that long.
This is by far the best thing I've read all day.
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