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Below is an email my friend's whatever sent her. I want you lovely people to read it and tell me what you think. I think he is blowing smoke up her bum and stating his disinterest..
"First, let me say that I am sorry for taking so long to respond. I am going through a lot and unfortunately, I just hide from the world when it gets to heavy....
I would be lying if I tried to tell you that I didn't have feelings for you or I wasn't still interested in you. I don't like not talking to or with you.... In fact, I love it... Your thouhts are so interesting and deep and even when I don't respond, I take them all in. There isn't a day that goes by where you say something and I don't learn something new.... I am not using you at all and if you feel that way, I won't ever speak to you again to avoid those feelings to continue. I wish I could explain how I feel about you or what so see our relationship as but I can't. I can tell you though that I enjoy having you in my life... I hold you above almost everyone I associate myself with whether it be family, friends, associates, co-workers.... Everyone. I want to be open with you bit the truth is, you scare me.... The feelings I get about you scare me. The hold you have on me scares me and not necessarily in a bad way either....its just strong. I think its because you make me think. You challenge me to be a better person and a better man... A better everything and I want to be. I don't want to disappoint you either.... I do know what its like to love and not be loved back.... I know what a lot of things feel like.... Just like you not being there in mt life feels empty."
Below is an email my friend's whatever sent her. I want you lovely people to read it and tell me what you think. I think he is blowing smoke up her bum and stating his disinterest..
"First, let me say that I am sorry for taking so long to respond. I am going through a lot and unfortunately, I just hide from the world when it gets to heavy....
I would be lying if I tried to tell you that I didn't have feelings for you or I wasn't still interested in you. I don't like not talking to or with you.... In fact, I love it... Your thouhts are so interesting and deep and even when I don't respond, I take them all in. There isn't a day that goes by where you say something and I don't learn something new.... I am not using you at all and if you feel that way, I won't ever speak to you again to avoid those feelings to continue. I wish I could explain how I feel about you or what so see our relationship as but I can't. I can tell you though that I enjoy having you in my life... I hold you above almost everyone I associate myself with whether it be family, friends, associates, co-workers.... Everyone. I want to be open with you bit the truth is, you scare me.... The feelings I get about you scare me. The hold you have on me scares me and not necessarily in a bad way either....its just strong. I think its because you make me think. You challenge me to be a better person and a better man... A better everything and I want to be. I don't want to disappoint you either.... I do know what its like to love and not be loved back.... I know what a lot of things feel like.... Just like you not being there in mt life feels empty."
We don't know enough to make a certain statement and why was this letter written and sent.
Unfortunately it seems that he is trying to let her down easy...
Last edited by max's mama; 08-02-2011 at 10:19 PM..
Below is an email my friend's whatever sent her. I want you lovely people to read it and tell me what you think. I think he is blowing smoke up her bum and stating his disinterest..
"First, let me say that I am sorry for taking so long to respond. I am going through a lot and unfortunately, I just hide from the world when it gets to heavy....
I would be lying if I tried to tell you that I didn't have feelings for you or I wasn't still interested in you. I don't like not talking to or with you.... In fact, I love it... Your thouhts are so interesting and deep and even when I don't respond, I take them all in. There isn't a day that goes by where you say something and I don't learn something new.... I am not using you at all and if you feel that way, I won't ever speak to you again to avoid those feelings to continue. I wish I could explain how I feel about you or what so see our relationship as but I can't. I can tell you though that I enjoy having you in my life... I hold you above almost everyone I associate myself with whether it be family, friends, associates, co-workers.... Everyone. I want to be open with you bit the truth is, you scare me.... The feelings I get about you scare me. The hold you have on me scares me and not necessarily in a bad way either....its just strong. I think its because you make me think. You challenge me to be a better person and a better man... A better everything and I want to be. I don't want to disappoint you either.... I do know what its like to love and not be loved back.... I know what a lot of things feel like.... Just like you not being there in mt life feels empty."
Sorry, I forgot to add some info. She has known this guy for about six months. For the past three, he has been in idk land(not sure of anything), telling her he has feelings for her, wants to date her, but his actions state otherwise. He stopped contacting her but, she will or was up until last week, texting and he'd respond. All the while blowing smoke up her bum about being together. So, she emailed him asking if he was still interested and if not, they should end the communication at that email. What I posted was his response. So.. lol
if he thinks she is soooo great like the email says, then she should be getting all kinds of calls and text from him. maybe he has some other unknown problem having nothing to do with her.
if he thinks she is soooo great like the email says, then she should be getting all kinds of calls and text from him. maybe he has some other unknown problem having nothing to do with her.
And that's what I thought too but she says after he sent that and she responded he has not called, texter, emailed or whatnot. As for problems, I don'tknow. she hasn't alluded to any.. besides him going through a divorce or something.
Last edited by relocatingdiva79; 08-02-2011 at 11:11 PM..
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And that's what I thought too but she says after he sent that and she responded he has not called, texter, emailed or whatnot. As for problems, I don'tknow. she hasn't alluded to any.. besides him going through a divorce or something.
i think he really likes her, but is not ready it's just my best guess. she'd have to be really direct with him to get to the bottom of it
I think your friend ought to avoid. Maybe he's a great guy but he needs to find out if he wants to actually get to know her on a higher level or not. It sounds like he finds her amazing yet he's afraid of love.
i think he really likes her, but is not ready it's just my best guess. she'd have to be really direct with him to get to the bottom of it
Could be.. could be not. She showed me her email to him before the aforementioned email and she asked him flat out was he interested. This email is what lead to my excuses post. Asked him flat out and the poor gal.. she cares about him deeply. I told her it read like game.
I think your friend ought to avoid. Maybe he's a great guy but he needs to find out if he wants to actually get to know her on a higher level or not. It sounds like he finds her amazing yet he's afraid of love.
i think she should too and she says she has been ( we don't live in the same state anymore), so I have to go by her word.
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he has not called, texter, emailed or whatnot. As for problems, I don'tknow. she hasn't alluded to any.. besides him going through a divorce or something.
