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My BF wants me to move into his family's home. Currently, it's his older parents (who WANT me to move in!), his son, the possibility of his younger children when they come to visit, and nieces and nephews who come to visit the grandparents. Excuse me, but this sounds like a circus to me and as much as I love his family I don't want to be with them OR HIM 24 hours a day.
I like my own space. I really do. I don't even invite him over more than once a week.
Now he has his whole family working on me to get me to move in. I don't want to, I've told him that and now they see it as their mission in life to bring me in. It's to the point where I don't want to see him anymore and just want to cut off all ties. The pressure is great and I'm afraid of givng in just to shut them all up!
My mother did this when she was younger with my dad's family. They were helping her out with bills because his mom was a widow. The younger sisters were there and one sister had a child whom was always in their room. Since it wasn't her house she had to put up with crap. It bothered my mom so much after awhile..she looked for apartments and told my dad shes living in one with or without him but never in that house. Thankfully they did move out and got a nice house my mom still lives in till this day. She can go visit the relatives if she pleases.
You need to make more time for him. Maybe you do not see him as the one. Once a week at your house! You need more sex then that. You need to tell him (if you want him)that you want him all to yourself. No relationship needs that much people in it.
Yes if i'm in love i can't get enough of it. Or (giggling) of him. But yes you do need space and time alone. I personaly have trust issues and have been burned too many times.
My BF wants me to move into his family's home. Currently, it's his older parents (who WANT me to move in!), his son, the possibility of his younger children when they come to visit, and nieces and nephews who come to visit the grandparents. Excuse me, but this sounds like a circus to me and as much as I love his family I don't want to be with them OR HIM 24 hours a day.
I like my own space. I really do. I don't even invite him over more than once a week.
Now he has his whole family working on me to get me to move in. I don't want to, I've told him that and now they see it as their mission in life to bring me in. It's to the point where I don't want to see him anymore and just want to cut off all ties. The pressure is great and I'm afraid of givng in just to shut them all up!
What would you do?
To thine ownself be true.
You know this isn't right for you - don't give in and do tell him that his insistence that you do is driving you apart.
My BF wants me to move into his family's home. Currently, it's his older parents (who WANT me to move in!), his son, the possibility of his younger children when they come to visit, and nieces and nephews who come to visit the grandparents. Excuse me, but this sounds like a circus to me and as much as I love his family I don't want to be with them OR HIM 24 hours a day.
I like my own space. I really do. I don't even invite him over more than once a week.
Now he has his whole family working on me to get me to move in. I don't want to, I've told him that and now they see it as their mission in life to bring me in. It's to the point where I don't want to see him anymore and just want to cut off all ties. The pressure is great and I'm afraid of givng in just to shut them all up!
What would you do?
I don't understand...why do they want you to move in? Are you having financial problems?
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