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Old 10-21-2009, 07:50 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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on instant messenger-"what company do you work for?

I told her-I only reveal that on the phone

can you imagine if a guy ask that question? She would say-"STALKER ALERT!!!
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Old 10-21-2009, 08:39 PM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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oh, puleeeeeze!
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Old 10-21-2009, 08:45 PM
 
Location: Pa
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on instant messenger-"what company do you work for?

I told her-I only reveal that on the phone

can you imagine if a guy ask that question? She would say-"STALKER ALERT!!!
you should of said Jerkins Lotion...
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Old 10-21-2009, 08:49 PM
 
Location: Kansas to Rochester, NY
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This is when banter should come into play IMO... but yeah I agree. If I asked where the gal worked (of course if I didn't know where) then that's an automatic flag. But that would have to depend on how much you really know and trust each other.
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Old 10-21-2009, 08:52 PM
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This is when banter should come into play IMO... but yeah I agree. If I asked where the gal worked (of course if I didn't know where) then that's an automatic flag. But that would have to depend on how much you really know and trust each other.
but i never understood why the phone was a problem if i'm telling them they can block their number when they call me.
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Old 10-21-2009, 08:53 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Hey Solomon techically we are connected through some type of phone line with in the cables....So..."Where do you work?" *smile*
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Old 10-21-2009, 08:57 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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on instant messenger-"what company do you work for?

I told her-I only reveal that on the phone

can you imagine if a guy ask that question? She would say-"STALKER ALERT!!!
In the time it took you to write that you could have stated the name of the company.

Anyway, she's probably more comfortable on IM. Maybe she's not confident speaking on the phone so early in the 'relationship'. Your response is argumentative and is not conducive to a good start. You could have replied with humor by saying "McDonalds" but instead you chose to be mean. Oh, well...you probably saved her a lot of time and energy with that response.
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Old 10-21-2009, 08:59 PM
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In the time it took you to write that you could have stated the name of the company.

Anyway, she's probably more comfortable on IM. Maybe she's not confident speaking on the phone so early in the 'relationship'. Your response is argumentative and is not conducive to a good start. You could have replied with humor by saying "McDonalds" but instead you chose to be mean. Oh, well...you probably saved her a lot of time and energy with that response.
i keep forgetting, "WOMEN HAVE THE POWER"
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Old 10-21-2009, 09:01 PM
 
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i keep forgetting, "WOMEN HAVE THE POWER"
If you were more easygoing, the going might get easier.
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Old 10-21-2009, 09:05 PM
 
Location: Pa
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In the time it took you to write that you could have stated the name of the company.

Anyway, she's probably more comfortable on IM. Maybe she's not confident speaking on the phone so early in the 'relationship'. Your response is argumentative and is not conducive to a good start. You could have replied with humor by saying "McDonalds" but instead you chose to be mean. Oh, well...you probably saved her a lot of time and energy with that response.
He should of said "McDonalds" So she could have it "her way"
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