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Croye22 · 11-01-2009, 07:51 AM

Do you ever notice if a guy likes you or not, or how do you tell if a guy likes you?

Again, I'm asking what female users think since I want to hear their side of the relationship coin

yankeegirl313 · 11-01-2009, 08:03 AM

If he is not going to make it noticeable, then sometimes we have to read between the lines, but for me, its usually the vibe I get.

Croye22 · 11-01-2009, 08:08 AM

What if a guy indirectly says he like you? I've read that it's bad to directly say you like a girl

Sunnydee · 11-01-2009, 08:23 AM

If you're interested in a woman talk to her, spend time with her, work on a project together, listen when she speaks, and get to know her. A guy who is willing to invest time, hang around, and get to know me becomes more attractive because they aren't an in and out artist.

virgode · 11-01-2009, 08:23 AM

Games, Jeezz

yankeegirl313 · 11-01-2009, 08:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Croye22

What if a guy indirectly says he like you? I've read that it's bad to directly say you like a girl

Well...how is she going to know that you like her, if you don`t tell her?

scarletneon · 11-01-2009, 08:47 AM

I don't know. I have plenty of guy friends that want to hang out with me and spend time with me, but when it comes down to it they don't actually want to date me. So I never can really tell so I just always assume they are not interested in me that way.

Niftybergin · 11-01-2009, 08:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Croye22

Do you ever notice if a guy likes you or not, or how do you tell if a guy likes you?

I NEVER notice. I have no radar where this is concerned whatsoever. None. Zip. Zilch. I've heard many times -- after the fact -- about some guy who was interested in me but moved on because I wasn't receptive to his signals. But the problem is not that I wasn't receptive, it's that I didn't REALIZE. If a guy is interested in me, he almost has to take my face in his hands, look me in the eye, and use his words. I'm just so freakin' oblivious, otherwise.

virgode · 11-01-2009, 08:53 AM

Ask her out on a date, like a movie.
Then take it from there.

MMichelle · 11-01-2009, 09:12 AM

If he is not making any effort to let me know he likes me - how would I know?
Frankly, if he is not forward enough to ask me out to coffee / a glass of wine / etc. -- why would I spend time thinking about what he might be thinking??