What Chances A Single Mother Of 3 Has To Find Someone Serious? (woman, cheating)
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How will someone know the children have 3 different fathers if she doesn't tell them? I mean, if she really wanted to present herself to a man in a more...I guess...respectable way, she could easily lie. Happens everyday.
Yeah, but what are the chances of this happening? Considering that right now it is a dog eat dog in the dating world.
Her chances are as good as everyone else's chances.
Unless a man sees her out with her kids then he's not going to know that she has 3 from 3 different men. And if he finds out and bails even though everything else about her is exactly what he was looking for; then he wasn't the right man to begin with.
It all depends on the person; I know several men who wouldn't care if she had kids IF she was employed and handled her finances well, she and her children and her home were always presentable, she has some goals and drive, she is raising her kids to be respectful and well-behaved and she doesn't have a lot of drama.
All 3 kids have different fathers by the way. Does she have a good chance or will it be hard for her?
Her best chance would be to never let anybody know everybody has a different "baby daddy". Just tell people that she is widowed, that her beloved deceased husband just loved his three kids to death. Oh, and she needs to make it appear she has something on the ball, like a job or an education, or something.
All 3 kids have different fathers by the way. Does she have a good chance or will it be hard for her?
I'd say rough, but not impossible. One of my ex's brother's married (after only a few months of dating) this girl who had four kids from three different men (and not to overanalyze it, but the two who have the same dad have another kid with a different dad in between them)...and it's my understanding that there were cheating allegations shortly after they were married. Funny how that works. Sorry for the digression...yes possible, but highly improbable.
Her best chance would be to never let anybody know everybody has a different "baby daddy". Just tell people that she is widowed, that her beloved deceased husband just loved his three kids to death. Oh, and she needs to make it appear she has something on the ball, like a job or an education, or something.
But then their has to be no involvement from not only any of the kids' fathers, but all the grandparents, etc involved. I mean, that's a hard secret to keep, if any of the kids' relatives want to be in their lives.
And I would imagine that most people find their SO's ex enough to deal with, let alone 3 exes, and all the family involved. Ick. What a mess.
Oh please.. These type of women can easily find a serious relationship.. It's just not likely she'll find a QUALITY person to commit to her.. I had a friend that had two kids by two guys that had never even been her BOYFRIEND.. When they were ages 3 and 1, she met a loser that wanted to commit to her and she got pregnant with her third kid. They broke up while she was pregnant. Her and I fell out not long after her youngest was born, but we caught up about a year later and she was married to a different guy. So here she was, with 3 kids by 3 different guys all within about 4 years and she found someone to marry her. I guess he was a decent guy too.. but a few months after they married, he moved back to his hometown because he decided he wasn't so sure about his sexuality lol.
Oh, and let's not forget that this whole time she was unemployed, on welfare, and significantly overweight!
I have three kids from my first marriage and had no trouble getting married two more times after that LOL My Mom also had three kids and dated after she divorced but never would re-marry.
All 3 kids have different fathers by the way. Does she have a good chance or will it be hard for her?
I don't know! She obviously puts out! lol! Ok...seriously, if she has been married three times and had three children then it's not an issue of her being a skank, it's just a matter of why she's had three marriages! But chances are, until her kids are grown, she will not find anyone serious about being with her.
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