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My ex and I have been able to maintain a friendship long after our relationship ended I doubt seriously if there will ever be anything exclusive between us again...
But anyway here goes I'm from Jersey he now lives in Florida we've been discussing me coming down for a visit for at least 6 or 7 months but there was just a lot going on and I couldn't make it. WELL finally i got the chance to take that trip to FL to spend the weekend on Fri. my flight comes in and we go out for a few drinks we play pool laugh and talk. After the first game of pool ended he tells me that he's going to the restroom .................................................. .
And I'm sitting where we left off between the bar and the pool table for 30-35 min. within that time I even played a unrushed game of pool by myself (the whole game !) finally after the 35 minutes he appears back out of nowhere as if nothing happened ? no apology, didn't even acknowledge the fact that DAM i left her here by herself all that time... "Nothing" I then asked are you okay ? also added "I played a whole game of pool by myself while you were gone for 35 minutes" still he said nothing... Now the entire weekend there it's bothering me but i still said nothing after all the wanting me come there so we can do some things have fun and enjoy each others company my welcome the first night was that...
I'm home now and I want to send him a message to tell him how I feel...
Maybe he had some serious bowel issues??? Could be, you know. He could've been nervous, had a case of the runs, couldn't get out of the bathroom, didn't want to say anything about it....
My ex and I have been able to maintain a friendship long after our relationship ended I doubt seriously if there will ever be anything exclusive between us again...
But anyway here goes I'm from Jersey he now lives in Florida we've been discussing me coming down for a visit for at least 6 or 7 months but there was just a lot going on and I couldn't make it. WELL finally i got the chance to take that trip to FL to spend the weekend on Fri. my flight comes in and we go out for a few drinks we play pool laugh and talk. After the first game of pool ended he tells me that he's going to the restroom .................................................. .
And I'm sitting where we left off between the bar and the pool table for 30-35 min. within that time I even played a unrushed game of pool by myself (the whole game !) finally after the 35 minutes he appears back out of nowhere as if nothing happened ? no apology, didn't even acknowledge the fact that DAM i left her here by herself all that time... "Nothing" I then asked are you okay ? also added "I played a whole game of pool by myself while you were gone for 35 minutes" still he said nothing... Now the entire weekend there it's bothering me but i still said nothing after all the wanting me come there so we can do some things have fun and enjoy each others company my welcome the first night was that...
I'm home now and I want to send him a message to tell him how I feel...
Ladies ? Men ? What would you do / say ?
He's your ex. Spare yourself the trouble of spending time with him like that. To me that friendship sounds more unhealthy than anything else. He could be doing anything, chatting up the hot red head or something like that. He was most probably talking with someone else, perhaps hoping he would get lucky?
You're his friend, so he's going to treat you like that. And romance / Sex / conquering often comes before friendship. If i was you i would spare myself the trouble and just let it be.
why even bother to invite me there if you have your alone time like that ?, makes no sense the spot was pretty big so it wasn't like I can see anything from where I was but yeah you're right.
that would probably be a really good idea I guess he lives the life he lives like such so that he doesn't have to go thru explaining things but that was way inconsiderate and for that i could have stayed where I was and saved my little $200 bucks !
that would probably be a really good idea I guess he lives the life he lives like such so that he doesn't have to go thru explaining things but that was way inconsiderate and for that i could have stayed where I was and saved my little $200 bucks !
Was the 200 bucks a loss? Hell yes!
Was it worth to learn this lesson? Mhmmm... I would say it was
Something like this happened to me once. I went out on a date and needed to #2. So after it was done I realized I was out of toilet paper and there was only one toilet. I waited for someone to come in and it never happened. So after almost 25 minutes (it was really messy and I would have needed a full roll of tissue) I had to use my socks to wipe my butt. Then my hands got all smelly and there was no soap in the sink. It was terrible and the chick got so pissed off that she left by herself.
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