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My friend is constantly crying over a cheating jerk. I have only been introduce to him 4 times.
He cheated on her multiply times and left her. He already has another girlfriend but still crying over it hoping that he will come back.
I really want to punch him. Seriously he deserves it.
It's long while since I haven't been this angry before and I stopped lashing out on others since I was 14. I was a school bully (to more boys than girls) long ago. Sadly I would take advantage, knowing they wouldn't retaliate in return.
Anyways it's been a very long while since I changed and haven't resorted to violence but this jerk is pissing me off.
Honestly doesn't a cheating jerk who makes my friend cry and eat less deserves to get either slap or sock?
Can't stand seeing my friend like this.
My friend is constantly crying over a cheating jerk. I have only been introduce to him 4 times.
He cheated on her multiply times and left with. He already has another girlfriend but still crying over it hoping that he will come back.
I really want to punch him. Seriously he deserves it.
I haven't been this angry before and I stopped lashing out on others since I was 14. I was a school bully (to more boys than girls) long ago. Sadly I would take advantage, knowing they wouldn't retaliate in return.
Anyways it's been a very long while since I changed and haven't resorted to violence but this jerk is pissing me off.
Honestly doesn't a cheating jerk who makes my friend cry and eat less deserves to get either slap or sock?
Can't stand seeing my friend like this.
Getting violent with anyone, but especially a friend, is never good or acceptable. Part of being a good friend is "being there" when your friend needs to talk, so do that.
But if your friend has been going on and on for months it would be okay for you at this point to say, "I care about how you are feeling and I'm sorry you are hurting, but ruminating over this for months is not healthy. And because what you are doing is unhealthy, I can't allow you to go on and on anymore when we are together." Then change the subject. If he tries to go back to talking about the ex repeat what I told you above, then change the subject - again. Remember, we teach people how to treat us.
But if your friend has been going on and on for months it would be okay for you at this point to say, "I care about how you are feeling and I'm sorry you are hurting, but ruminating over this for months is not healthy. And because what you are doing is unhealthy, I can't allow you to go on and on anymore when we are together." Then change the subject. If he tries to go back to talking about the ex repeat what I told you above, then change the subject - again. Remember, we teach people how to treat us.
It's been about 3 months since he dumps her for OW he cheated with. That's what I been doing mainly but it hurts me seeing her eyes as swollen as a panda bear from crying too much. Even if she doesn't cry when we're talking or in front of me, her eyes says it all plus she eats less which is terrible for her health.
I thought men's prison were separated from women's prison.
Seriously can I possibly go to jail for that?
For real? Please tell me that you know you can go to jail for hitting someone.
A good first step would for you and your friend to unfriend the guy from Facebook. Oh wait, that was a different thread, sorry
But for real....violence doesn't solve anything. You'd do your friend a much better service by helping her get through this rough time, much in the same way that lovesMountains described.
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