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a) He chickened out due to your forwardness
b) He was so turned on he, uh, shall I say 'took matters into his own hand' and had nothing left for you. <shrugs>
LOLLL.
Seriously, how could have he chickened out like that if he really wanted and liked her? Maybe he has someone else on the side.
You know I was a stiff-necked nutter in my opinion about people in that line of work.
I happened to meet a stripper in NY and I met her in the church She volunteered for one of my activities. She was so into it and I learned about her line of work long after I saw the human side of her, her religiousness and her commitment to helping others, when ironically she could not help herself a lot. And....... this can appear as the perfect paradox.
It is very much a profession. I've since shifted my stiff-neckedness at those people who create the situation for this kind of job to even exist.
You know I was a stiff-necked nutter in my opinion about people in that line of work.
I happened to meet a stripper in NY and I met her in the church She volunteered for one of my activities. She was so into it and I learned about her line of work long after I saw the human side of her, her religiousness and her commitment to helping others, when ironically she could not help herself a lot. And....... this can appear as the perfect paradox.
It is very much a profession. I've since shifted my stiff-neckedness at those people who create the situation for this kind of job to even exist.
Yep! Your right.
This kinda reminds me of the guy in front of me the other day buying a six pack of beer from the grocery store, and asking the cashier to put it in a bag for him because he didn`t want want to run into his preacher leaving with it.
The OP is the typical person in this line of work, she craves attention, she is very dysfunctional and I totally see her manipulative tendencies and vulgar behavior, I mean, look at this thread! Yet some of you fools try to make excuses, "Oh no, it is just a profession" or "She needed money for college". What a bunch of BS. I put myself through college unloading trucks at UPS at 2 am, some of you people have absolutely no morals or values. I am sorry but if someone chooses this profession, they will have to pay the price and it says a LOT about a person's character.
Maybe you were just too forward? I had a friend who was aggressive in that way and ran men off left and right. I think men often say they want a forward partner, but a man eater is kinda frightening. Eek.
My gawd people get off the fact if she dances, or is a, doctor, mechanic, lawyer or politician or whatever, it has nothing to do with her text or thread. I know a ex dancer who is one of the most kindest, loyal to friends , nice, and loyal to her man kind of person, stop being so judgmental and assuming.
Some of you probably know a lawyer or politician, that's suppose to make you in good company? Fact is some lawyers and politicians are alright, so.......
I had a nice Christmas day (well except loosing a crown off my tooth) so I won't get deeper in this thread for now but I had to say that now.
So I've been single since the "baby" and I ended on Nov 4th. I have recently had a one time FWB situation with a long time friend of mine who has been after me for several years. He was very happy with it..My end, not the worst but not the greatest but at least its something.
So I told him for Christmas that I wanted some sex for my present. He said fine. I ended up working yesterday and had a headache and was dead so I passed out last night. Today, I sent a very specific text suggesting the evening with specific details on the ending..His response was: wow. I talked to him a little later and he didn't mention one word about it and it didn't sound like it was going to happen..Any man would have killed for this text mesage..I don't get it
My thoughts on the possible unresponsiveness on his part:
--It was too vulgar for his liking.
--He isn't experienced enough sexually and is afraid he wouldn't be able to perform/participate in whatever you were suggesting to him via text.
--He may want more than just a FWB situation and if the text was overly vulgar, he may have felt cheapened or that he was no longer interested in being with you (I say this because you said he's been "after" you for several years).
--Busy, something else came up, etc...it is a holiday, after all.
I noticed that you said "it didn't sound like it was going to happen." So you don't really know for sure, is what I'm getting out of that. Have you actually come right out and asked him?
So I've been single since the "baby" and I ended on Nov 4th. I have recently had a one time FWB situation with a long time friend of mine who has been after me for several years. He was very happy with it..My end, not the worst but not the greatest but at least its something.
So I told him for Christmas that I wanted some sex for my present. He said fine. I ended up working yesterday and had a headache and was dead so I passed out last night. Today, I sent a very specific text suggesting the evening with specific details on the ending..His response was: wow. I talked to him a little later and he didn't mention one word about it and it didn't sound like it was going to happen..Any man would have killed for this text mesage..I don't get it
OK. Back to the original question.
Maybe you could just come out and ask him if he wants to come over...
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so I won't get deeper in this thread for now but I had to say that now. 
