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Old 12-10-2009, 08:06 PM
 
Location: Kentucky
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This kinda goes with the thread related to the past numbr of sex parters a girlfriend had. Why is it still that women are seen as bad if they engage in sex with more then a few but men are seen completely different for the same thing? Shouldn't that be different now?
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Old 12-10-2009, 08:08 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Some men are seen as tramps, male whores, players, or just sperm donors.
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Old 12-10-2009, 08:08 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Shouldn't that be different now?
He-he, a lot of things should be something, but are not. Ol' double standards die hard.
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Old 12-10-2009, 08:09 PM
 
Location: DFW
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It is different now to most people. Most men & women today are much more open and accepting of the enjoyment of sex.

I guess there is still the people who grow up with their parents telling them it is wrong for a woman to enjoy. That's too bad.

I would never want to be with a woman who wasn't open about her sexuality. I believe most real MEN would feel this way, maybe not boys.
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Old 12-10-2009, 08:10 PM
 
Location: Westchester County
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Life isn't fair.
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Old 12-10-2009, 08:11 PM
 
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Sometimes men's egos get in the way. Sad truth.
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Old 12-10-2009, 08:12 PM
 
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Like i said in my own thread, i did not hold double standard to my GF of 8 months. It was the fact that she had been with almost 4 times the average amount of partners as he average in my class. Also the majority of her partners were non emotionally attatched. There enlys the problem for me!
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Old 12-10-2009, 08:16 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Like i said in my own thread, i did not hold double standard to my GF of 8 months. It was the fact that she had been with almost 4 times the average amount of partners as he average in my class. Also the majority of her partners were non emotionally attatched. There enlys the problem for me!
What STD's she got?
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Old 12-10-2009, 08:17 PM
 
Location: Kentucky
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JJ if she's a great girl, if she is no longer doing such things, if she is very much into you, why do you care??
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Old 12-10-2009, 08:18 PM
 
Location: Kingsport Tennessee
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I don't think there is anything wrong with enjoying sex but I would not want someone who had been with half the town. There are just too many instances of STDs, unwed mothers, deadbeat dads, etc.
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