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Old 01-13-2010, 04:22 PM
 
Location: southern california
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and the reason for the american marriage meltdown? published his personal emails to 1/2 million strangers, w/o his knowledge and permission and put him on CDF trial, my rights my rights my rights, whatever happened to respect? you've come a long way baby???? btw no evidence at all of an affair but much evidence of a bad and sad marriage.
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Old 01-13-2010, 04:45 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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and the reason for the american marriage meltdown? published his personal emails to 1/2 million strangers, w/o his knowledge and permission and put him on CDF trial, my rights my rights my rights, whatever happened to respect? you've come a long way baby???? btw no evidence at all of an affair but much evidence of a bad and sad marriage.
Huck, I agree w/ you on a lot of things, but do you REALLY think those emails sounded innocent?
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Old 01-13-2010, 04:57 PM
 
Location: southern california
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Huck, I agree w/ you on a lot of things, but do you REALLY think those emails sounded innocent?
i did not see bald evidence of a physical sexual affair. no doubt my own gender prejudice could soil my fair and impartial judgemenet of this CDF trial-- but the end never justifies the means -friend. i see this hacking of email and publishing it by a hurt or insecure woman way way too much on CDF, btw w/o any remorse whatsoever. no woman would ever tolerate such betrayal why should men?
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Old 01-13-2010, 05:25 PM
 
Location: USA
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Ouch, harsh Huckleberry. We talked. I'll post later.
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Old 01-13-2010, 06:47 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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i did not see bald evidence of a physical sexual affair. no doubt my own gender prejudice could soil my fair and impartial judgemenet of this CDF trial-- but the end never justifies the means -friend. i see this hacking of email and publishing it by a hurt or insecure woman way way too much on CDF, btw w/o any remorse whatsoever. no woman would ever tolerate such betrayal why should men?
No one thinks he's actually done the deed yet but he is primed and ready to go. I think it's sad that so many men don't communicate before they try going outside of their marriage....

btw, it can't be that bad if it lasted 23 years.
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Old 01-13-2010, 06:53 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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i did not see bald evidence of a physical sexual affair. no doubt my own gender prejudice could soil my fair and impartial judgemenet of this CDF trial-- but the end never justifies the means -friend. i see this hacking of email and publishing it by a hurt or insecure woman way way too much on CDF, btw w/o any remorse whatsoever. no woman would ever tolerate such betrayal why should men?
Ok, I see what you are saying and yes, I'd be livid if my DH posted some of my emails. You are right about that. I don't think it was necessarily *right* of her to do THAT part, but what's done is done. Can't change it now.

There is A LOT of behavior here on CDF I don't agree w/, like airing all your dirty laundry about family/friends etc...that's why you'll see in none of my posts I never get too personal. It goes against MY personal beliefs to trash those I love even if they are in the wrong. I have my mother to talk to about that stuff

That being said we all have a bit of a voyeuristic nature to us, not all, but most, and it's hard to NOT participate in these things when they are about other people. Might not be right, but it is what it is.
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Old 01-13-2010, 11:10 PM
 
Location: Hawaii
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I took a look at my husband's phone a while back because he was keeping it on his person all the time. I thought it was odd, so I looked at what was on there.

<End of email>

Well? What would you make of this? Thanks.
Have you asked him?
I see lost trust and a need to communicate.
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Old 01-14-2010, 02:47 PM
 
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per op
and the reason for the american marriage meltdown? published his personal emails to 1/2 million strangers, w/o his knowledge and permission and put him on CDF trial, my rights my rights my rights, whatever happened to respect? you've come a long way baby???? btw no evidence at all of an affair but much evidence of a bad and sad marriage.
I think this is unfair. We all need someone to talk to about things and perhaps she would rather get a completely unbiased view point from strangers. Unless she has posted personal information like names, company names, etc there is no way that anyone can possibly know who any of these people are. Also asking for opinions is not putting someone on 'trial'.

Btw - the email sounds suspicious to me - I hope you were able to get it clarified by your husband and that it turned out to be innocent. I would be very worried to see an email like that from my husband and would also have sought advice. Hugs and I hope it all works out ok!
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Old 01-14-2010, 03:36 PM
 
Location: Springfield MO
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Ouch, harsh Huckleberry. We talked. I'll post later.
Result? Did you find out what your were seeking?
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Old 01-14-2010, 03:38 PM
 
Location: Springfield MO
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Ouch, harsh Huckleberry. We talked. I'll post later.
Results? Did you find out what you were seeking?
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