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Old 04-16-2010, 12:53 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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Well Ladies and Gentlemen I have one for the books!

fyi, we will be discussing Casino Boy bka *cough*loser*cough*

Besides the fact that this guy had so many red flags I shoud have run from jump, none of his flags came into play when I told him to delete my number from his phone and that he was already deleted from mine.

He lives about an hour from me but doesn't have a car. I've been to the city where he lives three times and called him each time. The first two times he was working and couldn't meet, perfectly understandable. The third time, he told me he was off that day. I told him I would call when I finished my interview. I call, no answer!

So I left him a vm saying I was waiting 15 min then heading back - no call. Several hours later, I get a text telling me my vm was very selfish.

I called him back and put him on blast: I told him I was still unhappy about his little test and reminded him that there was nothing about him to suggest he had money so I wouldn't have known about his family's money unless he told me. Then I reminded him that he offered, I never asked. The I told him I hadn't been demanding of his time, he was the one who couldn't wake up 15-20 min earlier to talk to me but wanted me home waiting by the phone for his call (sone people are delusional). I reminded him that I was out trying find a job and networking with people who could help me and since he couldn't pay my bills, he needed to understand that I needed to handle my business.

At the end of the day, even without the red flags, he is waaaaay too much high drama and I don't have time for it.

btw I've already spotted a potential replacement already. Very nice, totally hot (not in the conventional sense - but I needed a cold shower after talking with him). Another blue collar guy *sigh* I guess I'm not destined to date for money. We'll see what happens.
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Old 04-16-2010, 02:03 PM
 
Location: The Mango Tree
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If you don't want him, then stop communicating with him. What's up with this long drawn out ordeal? It seems unnecessary. You've been playing into the drama. . .
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Old 04-16-2010, 02:25 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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I'm not sure I get it. Was this a long term relationship, or a new or casual relationship? Doesn't seem like he was interested in making time to meet up so I'd say moving on is the best for both of you.
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Old 04-16-2010, 03:44 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Yeah, move on. This is pretty simple!
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Old 04-16-2010, 05:24 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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I deleted his number a week ago. He begged for another chance. I didn't have a potential replacement lined up, so he got it. He blew it. I've already moved on. I was mostly ranting.
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Old 04-16-2010, 05:27 PM
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I didn't have a potential replacement lined up, so he got it.

girls are odd
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Old 04-16-2010, 05:28 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I deleted his number a week ago. He begged for another chance. I didn't have a potential replacement lined up, so he got it. He blew it. I've already moved on. I was mostly ranting.
Good deal!
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