Well Ladies and Gentlemen I have one for the books!
fyi, we will be discussing Casino Boy bka *
cough*loser*
cough*
Besides the fact that this guy had so many red flags I shoud have run from jump, none of his flags came into play when I told him to delete my number from his phone and that he was already deleted from mine.
He lives about an hour from me but doesn't have a car. I've been to the city where he lives three times and called him each time. The first two times he was working and couldn't meet, perfectly understandable. The third time, he told me he was off that day. I told him I would call when I finished my interview. I call, no answer!
So I left him a vm saying I was waiting 15 min then heading back - no call. Several hours later, I get a text telling me my vm was very selfish.
I called him back and put him on blast: I told him I was still unhappy about his little test and reminded him that there was nothing about him to suggest he had money so I wouldn't have known about his family's money unless he told me. Then I reminded him that he offered, I never asked. The I told him I hadn't been demanding of his time, he was the one who couldn't wake up 15-20 min earlier to talk to me but wanted me home waiting by the phone for his call (sone people are delusional). I reminded him that I was out trying find a job and networking with people who could help me and since he couldn't pay my bills, he needed to understand that I needed to handle my business.
At the end of the day, even without the red flags, he is waaaaay too much high drama and I don't have time for it.
btw I've already spotted a potential replacement already. Very nice, totally hot (not in the conventional sense - but I needed a cold shower after talking with him). Another blue collar guy *sigh* I guess I'm not destined to date for money.
We'll see what happens.