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Originally Posted by PassTheChocolate
I think we can all agree on what she should do. But the question is, how do you think you would feel at that moment? Whether you would actually be in that situation or not isn't really what I'm after.
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It would depend on what state of mind I was in (i.e. if I already realized he was abusive or not), but to be completely honest, I'd most likely feel bad and wonder what I was doing wrong. That's why I've always been terrified that I'd land myself in an emotionally abusive relationship. I'm easily guilt-able, and will always doubt myself before others until I notice an abusive/manipulative pattern. Physical abuse is more obvious, but I could see myself not "seeing" emotionally or psychologically abusive/manipulative behavior for years.
Now if this was a friend of mine, I'd move her out and wage a war.