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So my hormones have simmered and I still need a little help on this, I want to invite him to my party this weekend but for some reason I think it's a bit too fast, we sent messages back and forth but I haven't seen him in 12 yrs and back then I was kind of a shy girl and he was a jock, lol. What should I do CD?!?!?!
Ask him to the party. What if you don't and he meets someone this weekend?
So who is this guy you "reconnected" with 12 years later?
Is he a previous friend who all of a sudden turned hot? Was he never single when you knew him before? Basically what was the reason you didn't date him 12 years ago?
I was the kinda shy freshman and he was a jock..nuff said LOL
I was the kinda shy freshman and he was a jock..nuff said LOL
Wow. I had a similar situation on fb...the younger sister of some girls I knew in highschool contacted me when she noticed my relationship status changed about a year ago. However, she lives >400miles away....otherwise I'd have gone on a date with her.
We reconnected on FB the other day after 12 yrs and um can you say yummy?! I don't want to come off as this man hungry, man chasing woman..I just want to drop good hints that I'm interested..
Don't overthink it. Guy's are simple creatures. He will not understand subtle. Invite him to your party: "It's great to see you on here. I would love to have some time to catch up. I'm having a party this weekend if you would like to stop by."
I was the kinda shy freshman and he was a jock..nuff said LOL
Not trying to be a dick, but just being honest....if he wasn't interested in you then, and he's even more a "hottie" than he was in High School....what makes you think he's go out with you 12 years later?
I agree with the others that say invite him to your party. If he shows up solo, you'll know he may be interested. If he shows up with a girl, or blows you off (like doesn't respond to your invite), you have your answer as well.
Not trying to be a dick, but just being honest....if he wasn't interested in you then, and he's even more a "hottie" than he was in High School....what makes you think he's go out with you 12 years later?
People change, and tastes change. I know I'm not attracted to the same type of people as I was 12 years ago. Haven't you yourself grown & evolved in the last 12 years?
Not trying to be a dick, but just being honest....if he wasn't interested in you then, and he's even more a "hottie" than he was in High School....what makes you think he's go out with you 12 years later?
Ok you're right, I'm 26 years old too, but here's what I do know...
You're probably less attractive at 26 than you were at 14, and you probably put on weight (everyone has).
He was a jock in HS and didn't ask you out. But now you say he's got a great body and looks very attractive in his pictures, so his value has obviously increased in your eyes. Do you really think you're the only woman who recognizes his value? You don't think there's other women chasing him? I'm just sayin His Value+ and your value- (negative) since high school =/= you having a good chance with him.
Just puting it into perspective. Don't get your hopes up. Play it cool, drop hints you'd like to see him again casually, and if he's interested he'll make it happen. Good luck.
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