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I have been searching many forums for a long time now. I have seen countless threads about guys who can't get women attracted to them. They would ask for help, work on it, try again, complain, ... you know the deal. I even made a thread about this here some time ago.
But the thing is: Having read so many threads about this, I have never found one of these men that was successful. Some threads were well beyond 100 pages, so there has to be some good advice there. Some men sounded like they were doing good work... but they never made themselves attractive enough to find someone.
So my question is simple. Can a man learn to be more attractive? Or will the ones who are successful will keep getting all the women? So far the evidence I have doesn't seem very promising.
Your evidence is skewed. Remember that the ones who are doing the posting are the unsuccessful ones--the successful ones are out being, well, successful.
I assume you mean at love? An interesting phenomenon is that some men age very gracefully and are more attractive as they get older. My ex was one of those--he was never considered all that good looking until after he turned 40 and then women started hitting on him. The better you take care of yourself now and the more you make yourself more interesting, the better of a chance you have at being one of those men.
I meet so many women who want a man and so many men on here complaining that they can't get a woman--why don't you guys move to St. Louis? Honestly, men and women seem to be in the same boat, and I just think that modern life plays a big part in why people can't find a partner--it's not conducive to having a relationship.
Confidence helps, and knowing that rejection is something that happens. Keeping yourself groomed, might help. And improving how you dress(does not have to be expensive clothes either).
I have been searching many forums for a long time now. I have seen countless threads about guys who can't get women attracted to them. They would ask for help, work on it, try again, complain, ... you know the deal. I even made a thread about this here some time ago.
But the thing is: Having read so many threads about this, I have never found one of these men that was successful. Some threads were well beyond 100 pages, so there has to be some good advice there. Some men sounded like they were doing good work... but they never made themselves attractive enough to find someone.
So my question is simple. Can a man learn to be more attractive? Or will the ones who are successful will keep getting all the women? So far the evidence I have doesn't seem very promising.
There is no hope for old Rugged anymore. Guess what? I don't give a s***!!!!LMAO....... Go away, we do just fine alone! D***, that guy plays hard to get!!!!!LOL.......... I play even harder now!!!
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Honestly, men and women seem to be in the same boat, and I just think that modern life plays a big part in why people can't find a partner--it's not conducive to having a relationship.
Go away, we do just fine alone!
D***, that guy plays hard to get!!!!!LOL..........
