Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
I had something weird happen at church not long ago. The church was having a sale and he offered to buy me something. I declined, because I'm not big on having people I don't know that well buy me things. Anyway I see this guy all the time in church and he comes up to me to talk. As he's getting to know me he chats more. I don't want to be rude but I don't want him to get interested in me since I have a boyfriend and even if I didn't, I wouldn't be interested because he's not my type. Should I say something or wait and see if he asks me out and tell him then? I don't know if he's married or not but he comes to church by himself.
Last edited by Idon'tdateyou; 04-05-2014 at 05:52 PM..
Reason: forgot to add punctuation, duh.
I had something weird happen at church not long ago. The church was having a sale and he offered to buy me something I declined because I'm not big on having people I don't know that well buy me things. Anyway I see this guy all the time in church and he comes up to me to talk. As he's getting to know me he chats more. I don't want to be rude but I don't want him to get interested in me since I have a boyfriend and even if I didn't, I wouldn't be interested because he's not my type. Should I say something or wait and see if he asks me out and tell him then? I don't know if he's married or not but he comes to church by himself.
In church is a great place to tell him to "get thee behind me!".
It was weird because this guy came up to me and offered to buy me something. Not even sure what but he smiles when he sees me. He's not my type even if I was looking but would hate to upset someone who is interested in me. He probably was just being nice. He's not my type because I don't find him attractive.
It was weird because this guy came up to me and offered to buy me something. Not even sure what but he smiles when he sees me. He's not my type even if I was looking but would hate to upset someone who is interested in me. He probably was just being nice. He's not my type because I don't find him attractive.
I assume, your bf doesn't go with you to church? If not, maybe he thinks youre single; reason for his behavior?
I assume, your bf doesn't go with you to church? If not, maybe he thinks youre single; reason for his behavior?
Sometimes he goes, sometimes not but I often bring his mother. The church issue is something we are fighting about because he wants to go but is scared to go more often. I don't even know if this other guy is interested, he could be just friendly. I hate to lead him on but he's probably just friendly.
Sometimes he goes, sometimes not but I often bring his mother. The church issue is something we are fighting about because he wants to go but is scared to go more often. I don't even know if this other guy is interested, he could be just friendly. I hate to lead him on but he's probably just friendly.
What is there to fight about? Let him go whenever he feels like going.
I think the guy at church is being friendly. If he makes a clear advance, then tell him.
Find a way to bring up your boyfriend in conversation when this man talks to you. This way it doesn't look like you're assuming this guy is interested in you romantically, but are just casually referring to your bf.
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
