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Old 03-28-2010, 10:44 PM
 
Location: southern california
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love is very tricky when we dont need each other, we find out if it is real.
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Old 03-28-2010, 10:45 PM
 
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Ah yes he is rather the Witty lad, ain't he.
Hey, no one ever said they weren't! The band that produced Clapton, Beck and Page!!! Right on buddy!!!

YouTube - I Ain't Got You - Yardbirds (1965)
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Old 03-28-2010, 10:50 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Hey, no one ever said they weren't! The band that produced Clapton, Beck and Page!!! Right on buddy!!!

YouTube - I Ain't Got You - Yardbirds (1965)
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Old 03-28-2010, 11:08 PM
 
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man,i am european,trying to learn hier english..but your story is very difficult to understand for me..you drove yourself to his DATES (plural more yhen one)..was it before or after he did not pay your hotel...if it was after,why would you see a guy again,who invites you somewhere and does not pay for your hotel...did you sleep separately..why did you not leave immediatelly??when did you meet the needy competition?before teh dates,before the hotelstory...

can not tell you my opinion,whithout the whole picture..sorry...

if i had been a man,i would have married very late and have only young and very hot girlfriends (in need or not,who cares??i would have been very generouse)...keep me young,the saying says..and who would not want that???
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Old 03-28-2010, 11:32 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Well, those are the same girls who keep up drama, always hopping from place to place...

This is the last time Im going to allow myself to get caught up in a 3-way relationship. He has his main piece...who he does everything for, and wants to have me like some friggin sideline chick.
Sounds to me like he has fidelity issues, and isn't worth your time in the first place.
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Old 03-28-2010, 11:35 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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I just feel that if an older guy wants to have anything to do with me...plus he has a girlfriend 'back home', then he needs to hook me up with something. And Im not just talking about dinner and a movie.

Why, you ask. Because, If Im going to be the 'girl in the other fort', then I need compensation. They basically want an 'escort' to give them sex and have as arm candy to dates and such. Thats fine, but dont expect me to do all of that just because you toss me a dinner and some cheap ass drinks! And then, later on at the bar they are all kissed and hugged on some other girl. N-n-noooo!

I introduce that guy to a girl the last time we hung out at a bar. Next thing I know, they are making out in the corner That right there was enough to kick his ASS to the Muh Fuh... curb!
I'm not really interested in being anyone's "second best" and wouldn't expect any woman to be mine. I'm a one-woman man--that's all I can really deal with anyhow.
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Old 03-29-2010, 01:23 AM
 
Location: San Leandro
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nothin better than a woman who can admitt she needs to be taken care of instead of some that try so hard to reverse gender roles, only to wind up jaded in the end. Embrace what god gave ya.
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Old 03-29-2010, 01:36 AM
 
Location: Homeless
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I I still had to pay a hotel for 6 days, I still had to drive myself to our 'dates' which he never offered to pick me up...but Im supposed to be giving out my sex?
Are you saying if he did pay for your hotel and drove you to the dates you would have had sex?

And women wonder why some men expect sex after paying for a date.

As far as the rest of it, when you found out about his girlfriend it may have been wise to cut him off.
Unless thats your thing. lolz
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Old 03-29-2010, 04:58 AM
 
Location: Dubai
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Oh
shame on him
you deserve a cute
man, who treat you like
a Queen not like a maid?!! >_<
break up with him
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Old 03-29-2010, 07:03 AM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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I just feel that if an older guy wants to have anything to do with me...plus he has a girlfriend 'back home', then he needs to hook me up with something. And Im not just talking about dinner and a movie.

Why, you ask. Because, If Im going to be the 'girl in the other fort', then I need compensation. They basically want an 'escort' to give them sex and have as arm candy to dates and such.

Prostitution is illegal in most states, be careful putting this out on the internet as sometimes the Police act upon solicitations or admissions of crimes.
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