If a woman says that she can't find a man... (marriage, looking)

[Cleverbeetle98]

Maybe you should keep your unsolicited "advice" to yourself NYchi

[malamute]

Originally Posted by NYchi

So are you saying that all of these women who are single are only becuase they have too high of standards? That's B.S. to me.

Yes, that's what I think.


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[NYchi]

That fairytale love doesn't exist...maybe you will get married but let's face it, if you're not keeping up appearances, he will get tired fast.

[NYchi]

Originally Posted by swmrbird

Maybe you should keep your unsolicited "advice" to yourself NYchi

You must be of the lonely and in denial?!

[Djuna]

I have seen many couples who love one another through the chemotherapy, the aging process, the trials and tribulations of life...it has nothing to do with looks.

[Cleverbeetle98]

Originally Posted by NYchi

You must be of the lonely and in denial?!

Quite the opposite.

[CESpeed]

As much as I don't like the way the message is delivered, there is some validity to what the OP is saying: one cannot meet a man sitting at home. Since the only place a non-smoker can hang out in my town is the casino, I've found myself spending a good deal of time there and in two weeks I've met three guys: 1) that's been kicked to the curb (see Casino boy post) 2) who I'm very interested in (see Moving on...post) and 3) who just wants to be "friends" (ie potential sugar daddy - not going there - I'd rather have guy #2).

My point is I would not have met any of them without getting out of the house.

[Currency Pair Crocodile]

Originally Posted by Djuna

Finding a long term partner in life is NOT a business. You can market all you want, promote yourself blah blah and still never find a connection.

Love is sometimes blind, it is seldom able to be manipulated.

Your post is so offensive on so many levels.

Touche. Miss OP's misguided. This thread's a disaster already. She put foot in her mouth rightaway

[Ep-]

Originally Posted by NYchi

(keeping it brutally honest) She needs to a) lose weight b) get out more.

There are so many women complaining about being involuntarily single. If you are insecure about your body, join a gym. Men are visual creatures and most prefer fit women. If a man doesn't know you exist, there's no way to connect. At the end of the day it's a business and if one isn't properly marketing and promoting, then no one will want to buy the product.

instead of writing all this you could have just wrote "stop being fat lol"

[NYchi]

I don't understand why people are getting offended. All I'm saying is that people should care about their looks and get out there. How is a man going to notice someone sulking in a corner? And why would he want to?