Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Real Estate > Renting
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
 
Old 12-11-2007, 08:58 AM
 
3,631 posts, read 10,231,327 times
Reputation: 2039

Advertisements

If there's been a similar thread to this, please direct me to it, and I apologize. However, this is kind of urgent for my friend. (yes, really my friend, i'm not speaking for myself because i'm embarrassed -- i happily live alone because of reasons like this, hah! )

My friend's roommate has decided to move out next week and has just decided to tell her, well, I guess today. My friend is the only one whose name is on the lease, although since the roomie moved in, my friend and her landlord have apparently asked her to sign a lease, and she has refused. I guess my question is, does the roommate have to give more than a week's notice, even though she's not on the lease despite urging from my friend and the landlord? And would the fact that the landlord knows about the refusal to sign the lease be any protection if my friend is under any hardship because she no longer has someone paying the other half of the rent?

Additionally, my friend says that the roomie put holes in the wall, would it be a good idea for her to bring the landlord in and show her what happened and take pictures as well?

I don't know the entire situation, but I think the landlord might own very few properties and might be a little more hands on than with bigger complexes, so that might be a better situation for my friend.


Finally, has anything I posted make any sense? I'm upset for my friend and trying to get ready for work at the same time, so sometimes i forget to finish sentences.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 12-11-2007, 10:29 AM
 
Location: Dallas, Texas
3,589 posts, read 4,145,884 times
Reputation: 533
If the roommate who is leaving is not a party to the lease then your friend is SOL. She could try small claims court but she'd almost certainly lose. Your friend is lucky she wasn't evicted for letting someone who wasn't on the lease live there, by the way.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-11-2007, 11:47 AM
 
Location: Bike to Surf!
3,078 posts, read 11,060,716 times
Reputation: 3022
Yep, the renter on the lease is screwed. She should've called the cops to get rid of the roomie when they refused to get put on the lease. Too late now, she's liable for the rent and the damages. She should try to work something out with the landlord, but I doubt she'll get anywhere unless they're really really nice.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-11-2007, 04:03 PM
 
3,631 posts, read 10,231,327 times
Reputation: 2039
Well, the word is now that the landlord is going to try to get the roommate to sign a lease. Apparently the landlord has been involved trying to get this person to sign on the lease, but for some reason wasn't able to do so? I'm wondering if the landlord is overly nice? Because my complex is like 'max anyone can visit is 14 days, then it's time to talk.' *shrugs* who knows.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-11-2007, 06:17 PM
 
28,113 posts, read 63,642,682 times
Reputation: 23263
Room mate situation gone bad is the biggest problem I see. The person on the lease is the one who allowed the other to move in. The Landlord could have started an eviction against the person on the lease, but is under no obligation to do so.

Never, I repeat NEVER sign a contract with another person unless you are fully prepared to cover all the expenses and never invite someone to live with you unless you are willing and able to meet the obligation independently... anything else is just asking for trouble...

There have been several City-Data posting about this.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-11-2007, 07:40 PM
 
3,631 posts, read 10,231,327 times
Reputation: 2039
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ultrarunner View Post
Room mate situation gone bad is the biggest problem I see. The person on the lease is the one who allowed the other to move in. The Landlord could have started an eviction against the person on the lease, but is under no obligation to do so.

Never, I repeat NEVER sign a contract with another person unless you are fully prepared to cover all the expenses and never invite someone to live with you unless you are willing and able to meet the obligation independently... anything else is just asking for trouble...

There have been several City-Data posting about this.
This is why I figured I'd be better off poor and living alone than less poor and having a roommate.

And sorry for the extra posting - I was in a hurry this morning and didn't have time to do a search.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-12-2007, 12:03 AM
 
Location: Dallas TX & AL Gulf Coast
6,848 posts, read 11,797,799 times
Reputation: 33430
Quote:
Originally Posted by supernerdgirl View Post
My friend's roommate has decided to move out next week and has just decided to tell her, well, I guess today. My friend is the only one whose name is on the lease, although since the roomie moved in, my friend and her landlord have apparently asked her to sign a lease, and she has refused. I guess my question is, does the roommate have to give more than a week's notice, even though she's not on the lease despite urging from my friend and the landlord? And would the fact that the landlord knows about the refusal to sign the lease be any protection if my friend is under any hardship because she no longer has someone paying the other half of the rent?
Sorry, your friend is the only one that signed the lease which is a legally binding contract between her and her landlord, hence, the only responsible party for the rent.

Quote:
Additionally, my friend says that the roomie put holes in the wall, would it be a good idea for her to bring the landlord in and show her what happened and take pictures as well?
Yes, it would be a good idea to take pictures of this and have the landlord do a walk-through so that he can see it for himself. But, keep in mind, your friend is still the only one liable for these damages. If the landlord collects from your friend for these damages when the lease is up, then the only recourse for your friend is to ask the roommate to reimburse her for the damages. If the roommate is unwilling to reimburse her, then the only recourse your friend would then have would be to sue the roommate for the damages in small claims court to see if she could collect that way.

Quote:
I don't know the entire situation, but I think the landlord might own very few properties and might be a little more hands on than with bigger complexes, so that might be a better situation for my friend.
I don't understand what this means or what it has to do with the friend/roommate situation.

Quote:
Originally Posted by supernerdgirl View Post
Well, the word is now that the landlord is going to try to get the roommate to sign a lease. Apparently the landlord has been involved trying to get this person to sign on the lease, but for some reason wasn't able to do so? I'm wondering if the landlord is overly nice? Because my complex is like 'max anyone can visit is 14 days, then it's time to talk.' *shrugs* who knows.
Why would anyone think that the roommate will sign a lease at this late date (when she's leaving) when she hasn't been willing to sign it before? I wouldn't, would you? And, the landlord certainly can't force her to, either.

The best thing your friend can do at this point (if she cannot afford the rent by herself) is to find another roommate... immediately. But, this time she needs to get their name on the lease BEFORE they move in.

Here's hoping it all works out for all of you!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-12-2007, 08:07 AM
 
Location: Dallas, Texas
3,589 posts, read 4,145,884 times
Reputation: 533
Quote:
Originally Posted by supernerdgirl View Post
Well, the word is now that the landlord is going to try to get the roommate to sign a lease. Apparently the landlord has been involved trying to get this person to sign on the lease, but for some reason wasn't able to do so? I'm wondering if the landlord is overly nice? Because my complex is like 'max anyone can visit is 14 days, then it's time to talk.' *shrugs* who knows.
The landlord cannot force her to sign a lease. All he can do is force her to leave and start eviction proceedings against your friend for allowing someone unauthorized to live there in violation of the lease. To be honest, a lot of landlords don't care about this as long as the rent is being paid by *someone* and you're not tearing the place up, but you get the occasional one who gets prissy about it.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-13-2007, 10:40 AM
 
3,031 posts, read 9,084,943 times
Reputation: 842
This works the other way, too. Years ago when I was very young and didn't know any better, I leased a flat with a friend, except that because of the way we had to lease it (long complicated story), only her name went on the lease agreement. About 2 years later, we had a huge blowout and she forced me to move out.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-13-2007, 02:55 PM
 
Location: Tower Grove East, St. Louis, MO
12,063 posts, read 31,611,075 times
Reputation: 3799
My brothers own a condo together and they have a roommate. i have told them time and time again he needs to have a lease, but they're lazy and don't listen well. They could get very screwed, like your friend but maybe even worse because it's their home. Don't people watch Judge Judy? Haha
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Real Estate > Renting

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top