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Wedding is in November and it's crunch time to find a best man. I asked one Uncle and going to ask another Uncle as well. Is it strange to have my two uncles as Best Men?
My year old cousin was a brother to me until he went to high school. Then a family fight with my aunt and other family members lost touch with my cousin over the years.
My dad has been out of my life for almost 10 years.
Wedding is in November and it's crunch time to find a best man. I asked one Uncle and going to ask another Uncle as well. Is it strange to have my two uncles as Best Men?
My year old cousin was a brother to me until he went to high school. Then a family fight with my aunt and other family members lost touch with my cousin over the years.
My dad has been out of my life for almost 10 years.
Personally, I think that it would be a great honor for your uncles to be best men at your wedding. And, IMHO, it is OK to have different size wedding parties.
If you decide to go ahead with the wedding and not postpone it for a year or two, keep in mind that you probably will need ushers (to lead people to their seats at the church), as well. Your best man/ men will either be waiting at the altar with you or walk down the aisle with the bridesmaids (depends on the service).
Ushers, may or may not be considered "real" members of the wedding party.
Our son was married 4 years ago and we did not pay for the guests extra drinks at the rehearsal dinner that they purchased at the bar (except for champagne for toasts) and it still cost $75 a person. Yikes! In retrospect we really should have picked up the entire bar tab, too but my hubby and I could barely scrape together the money to pay for the planned restaurant & champagne bill. A few of the guests were pretty heavy drinkers or buying expensive top shelf liquor and I bet that it could have easily raised the price per person to $90 or maybe even $100. Yikes! Yikes!
Last edited by germaine2626; 07-30-2016 at 08:43 AM..
The rehearsal dinner will probably be 2 hopefully of my party. One works in stocks and other in healthcare so kind of a busy week. They already have that Friday after Thanksgiving off.
Rehearsal dinner will probably be just my mom, my aunt, my uncle, maybe my other aunt/uncle, my brides mom, and my brides Party of 4. Total of 15 at most for the rehearsal dinner probably just do pizza.
Not wanting to clog the forum with ?'s. Would you invite coworkers. I am thinking of inviting 2...bad move?
The rehearsal dinner will probably be 2 hopefully of my party. One works in stocks and other in healthcare so kind of a busy week. They already have that Friday after Thanksgiving off.
Rehearsal dinner will probably be just my mom, my aunt, my uncle, maybe my other aunt/uncle, my brides mom, and my brides Party of 4. Total of 15 at most for the rehearsal dinner probably just do pizza.
Not wanting to clog the forum with ?'s. Would you invite coworkers. I am thinking of inviting 2...bad move?
Do you mean inviting co-workers to the wedding or rehearsal dinner? Wedding--sure, if you want to do so and talk with them regularly. Rehearsal dinner--no need.
My own wedding--H's uncle was his best man. Old friend was the other groomsman. My 3 sisters were the bridesmaids. The odd numbers were fine. I didn't really feel close to high school friends and my college friends were broke. I didn't feel like I could ask them to participate in that way, and I couldn't afford to pay for their dresses.
Rehearsal dinner--pot luck at my parents house since H's family was from out of town. It's what we could all afford.
Our wedding itself was probably the least expensive wedding I've ever attended. Despite that, our family and friends still talk about the fun they had 30 plus years later. Without much money we really had to put ourselves into it--made our own "mix tapes" instead of a band or D.J., very casual venue, BIL's brothers were the bartenders, some people were dressed up, others very casual, etc.
The rehearsal dinner will probably be 2 hopefully of my party. One works in stocks and other in healthcare so kind of a busy week. They already have that Friday after Thanksgiving off.
Rehearsal dinner will probably be just my mom, my aunt, my uncle, maybe my other aunt/uncle, my brides mom, and my brides Party of 4. Total of 15 at most for the rehearsal dinner probably just do pizza.
Not wanting to clog the forum with ?'s. Would you invite coworkers. I am thinking of inviting 2...bad move?
Invite coworkers to the rehearsal dinner? No. It should be all members of the wedding party, parents or other close family, and maybe some out of town family. Their SO's should be invited, too.
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