Heh, you'll fit right in if you guys are in your 30s with a two year old and consider yourselves a "young family." The average first birth age in the US is ~25. In Croton, more people than average will have gone to grad school, saved up money, waited to get married and such, so yeah it will be fine for you. There's very little point in living in Croton without a family, so that dictates the vibe there. Check out the age distribution data for Croton half way down
this page. You guys are maybe a tad on the low side, but that's probably because many people who live in NYC or elsewhere with crappy schools wait until their kid is 4 or 5 to move, so in 3 years, all your peers will be jumping ship to the suburbs with good schools.