thank you for the comments i feel so much better
Posted 05-15-2010 at 09:16 AM by freakyfreak
thanks to you escapefromLA2010
now i can't wait for school monday i will use ur advice and i will tell my friends about this i just wanted u 2 know that g.s. stands for girl scouts which i have been involved in for about 10 years and that backstabber has destroyed girl scouts for me so i hope the troop breaks up me and my group of friends dont need to be treated this way why should i take crap from anybody my life may be turning but i cant wait to be in h.s. so i can truely use this advice for the whole year so they will leave us alone then they can roll around in their pitty which i would laugh at so thanks to u i am going to have a new outlook on school.
now i can't wait for school monday i will use ur advice and i will tell my friends about this i just wanted u 2 know that g.s. stands for girl scouts which i have been involved in for about 10 years and that backstabber has destroyed girl scouts for me so i hope the troop breaks up me and my group of friends dont need to be treated this way why should i take crap from anybody my life may be turning but i cant wait to be in h.s. so i can truely use this advice for the whole year so they will leave us alone then they can roll around in their pitty which i would laugh at so thanks to u i am going to have a new outlook on school.Total Comments 1
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Atta girl! But keep in mind. Those mean girlz may try even harder to make it difficult for you. But don't back down. The best thing to do which is most effective. And always remember this. #1. People need and want attention and for the most part will do what it takes to get, even if it's stepping on people. So wrong! But that's people for you. #2. People, people hate being ignored. So how do you get even? So simple!. You just ignore them and act like they don't exist. Worse thing anybody can feel is like they don't exist. So if they don't exist, how can you hear what they are saying? People hate being ignored. Try it, you will see that it really is effective. Those girls will feel really stupid and embarrassed. If you respond or lash out because they have offended you. Your giving them exactly what they want. Is attention. Don't get tangled in their webb.. And your lucky you are in Girl Scotts. Use that to your benefit. Use your experience as an example to share and teach the other of how to stand tall. No need to use names but that so called G.S mother should be ashamed. She is just a small person. Be a Leader and I bet there are others who are or have gone through what you have gone through. They just need a little guidance, courage and confidence. Use that as team building skills. I never was a girl scout but my 8 year old daughter wants to be. I will put her in. And I'll be sure to use your story and my experience as a lesson. Also, as you get older, you will be faced with similar challenges. But if your true to yourself, by being confident, you shouldn't have a problem. I'm glad you feel better. Keep up the good work. And thank you for sharing your experience with me. I've already shared this with my daughter to prepare her to. Don't be afraid to share and open up with your own mom. Make her your best friend. Never neglect your family. I can tell that you are a smart and strong girl. That's why people are jealous. Remember you can only really count on yourself. Believe in yourself. Take care. Big hug to you and your bfrenz. P.S. Keep me posted. Promise yourself that you will never ever think about ending life. You and Life are so precious and people like you will make a difference. You are needed. You have a purpose in life. Your friends and family need you. Your fellow g.S. comrades need you. Tell them your story/experience. Remember to stand tall. Remember you are not alone. Make your mission to make a difference. I guarantee you will get respect. Do G.S badges have a Respect/Honor or Courage of life badge people can earn? If not, maybe you can suggest for one. So that's how you do it. Flip negative situations to positive. Good luck! Let me know how it turns out.Posted 05-15-2010 at 01:56 PM by EscapeFromLa2010
