Guy got upset because I said I didn’t want to go over and watch a movie

[QUOTE=Rugratnyc;63833976]I’m back.i posted about not knowing what this guy I’m seeing is looking for.our 2nd date he told me somethings that came up as possible red flags.1 that he was a very sexual person.i didn’t understand what he meant by that he said something about how he has to be sexually attracted to the person he is dating and how he is very affectionate.then he said he likes to just chill at home sometimes and I told him I’m not into going to a dudes house so soon.he wanted me to go over to his place as a 2nd date and when I suggested we go for dinner he said I was changing the plans & got upset when I never actually said I was going to his place for the 2nd date.

We went out for dinner and had a good time but that’s also when he mentioned that he was a sexual person.now date 3 I asked him what he wanted to do he said he wanted to watch movies at his place.i told him I wasn’t a fan of going over so soon into dating.he got upset and stated how that was the plan just because he asked me if I liked to cuddle and I responded with yes then told him maybe one time we can.i didn’t think that meant our next date would be me going over and just cuddling.

He ended up telling me that I’m making things complicated and I’m being difficult.that I’m giving off red flags.then later still asked if I wanted to meet up.emotionally it was a complete rollercoaster to be told that someone no longer wants to see you that you’re a red flag and then ending it by asking if I still want to hangout.

I know I give mixed signals by saying I’d be down to cuddle sometime but I was just flirting.him getting upset because I don’t want to go to his place and watch movies throws me off.on the other hand I enjoy his company in person we don’t have these types of miscommunications when we are in front of one another.is he just looking to hook up?[/QUOTE]

I would say that good for her for being smart, but it shouldn't require smart to smell a pig. I would call her smart, however, for not being disrespected by somebody who has no shame.