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Old 08-15-2012, 10:21 AM
 
Location: California / Maryland / Cape May
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Originally Posted by .highnlite View Post
Really, now, do you think anyone would buy a house based on some post I made on some internet forum, that they would tell their loan broker, "we can do this, some guy on an internet forum said we could." Really?

As Wayne Gretsky said, Whether you think you can, or you think you can't, you are right.

Is this endemic among Americans today, that they will spend more time and energy on why something cannot be done, than they will spend on doing something?

I find that sad.

The psychologist Jean Piaget once said 80% of Americans do not move past the concrete operations stage. I think he was right.
Isn't that the truth?! (I could go off on an entire tangent on that one, but I won't. lol)
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Old 08-15-2012, 10:30 AM
 
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Really, now, do you think anyone would buy a house based , that they would tell their loan broker, "we can do this, some guy on an internet forum said we couon some post I made on some internet forumld." Really?

As Wayne Gretsky said, Whether you think you can, or you think you can't, you are right.

Is this endemic among Americans today, that they will spend more time and energy on why something cannot be done, than they will spend on doing something?

I find that sad.

The psychologist Jean Piaget once said 80% of Americans do not move past the concrete operations stage. I think he was right.
You know, I don't think I ever said that someone would buy a house based on some post made on some internet forum.

What is sad is that you find yourself unable to back up your comments and you try to blame others.

That is the sad reality in America today; a lack of self accountability.
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Old 08-15-2012, 10:48 AM
 
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You know, I don't think I ever said that someone would buy a house based on some post made on some internet forum.

What is sad is that you find yourself unable to back up your comments and you try to blame others.

That is the sad reality in America today; a lack of self accountability.
Really? I didn't get that .high was unable to "back up his comments" at all ...
what I got was he made an appropriately ballpark generalization example of how something could be accomplished. He made it highly simplified so that even the most obtuse adult should have been able to understand. In that simplification he eliminated T&I (for simplicity) and used the full purchase price as compensation -- rather than write out: less down payment -- plus T&I ... etc. Pretty obvious that the numbers ballpark out for the purposes of simplistic -- and productive -- conversation.

And then I got the predictable negativisms to follow by people with nothing better to do than find fault where none exists.
And, of course, the predictable personal judgements and demeanments to wrap things up.
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Old 08-15-2012, 10:54 AM
 
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Really? I didn't get that .high was unable to "back up his comments" at all ...
what I got was he made an appropriately ballpark generalization example of how something could be accomplished. He made it highly simplified so that even the most obtuse adult should have been able to understand. In that simplification he eliminated T&I (for simplicity) and used the full purchase price as compensation -- rather than write out: less down payment -- plus T&I ... etc. Pretty obvious that the numbers ballpark out for the purposes of simplistic -- and productive -- conversation.

And then I got the predictable negativisms to follow by people with nothing better to do than find fault where none exists.
And, of course, the predictable personal judgements and demeanments to wrap things up.
I am sorry that you didn't "get it". The ballpark theory is one reason we have record foreclosures.

All that followed in your post is exactly what you are complaining about. Such negativity.
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Old 08-15-2012, 11:04 AM
 
Location: Bay Area
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Really? I didn't get that .high was unable to "back up his comments" at all ...
what I got was he made an appropriately ballpark generalization example of how something could be accomplished. He made it highly simplified so that even the most obtuse adult should have been able to understand. In that simplification he eliminated T&I (for simplicity) and used the full purchase price as compensation -- rather than write out: less down payment -- plus T&I ... etc. Pretty obvious that the numbers ballpark out for the purposes of simplistic -- and productive -- conversation.

And then I got the predictable negativisms to follow by people with nothing better to do than find fault where none exists.
And, of course, the predictable personal judgements and demeanments to wrap things up.
i thought he was saying put nothing down AND finance T&I. but he still presumes two $60k incomes. no, not everybody marries or has a partner, or stays married, or marries necessarily at the same educational level. yes, you can call that negative but i call it reality. factor in even one job loss, divorce or death of a spouse and you're screwed. in the old days one moderate or even low income could buy a house. sure, there are cheaper houses out there. but those areas also have lower incomes.

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Old 08-15-2012, 11:26 AM
 
Location: Quimper Peninsula
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Isn't that the truth?! (I could go off on an entire tangent on that one, but I won't. lol)

I had to resist too...

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Old 08-15-2012, 11:33 AM
 
Location: Quimper Peninsula
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i thought he was saying put nothing down AND finance T&I. but he still presumes two $60k incomes. no, not everybody marries or has a partner, or stays married, or marries necessarily at the same educational level. yes, you can call that negative but i call it reality. factor in even one job loss, divorce or death of a spouse and you're screwed. in the old days one moderate or even low income could be a house. sure, there are cheaper houses out there. but those areas also have lower incomes.
Another possibility for a tangent....
I do not disagree, it is no cake walk, especially in desirable areas of the country or even state for that matter... One could go to North Dakota get a job and buy a house.. But no, buying a house in highly desirable areas is not reality for most.... Still can buy a house, just not in the area one may want..

This I do not believe has changed since the "old days". Some areas are just plain out of reach for certain income brackets. Always been that way.
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Old 08-15-2012, 11:50 AM
 
Location: Bay Area
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Another possibility for a tangent....
I do not disagree, it is no cake walk, especially in desirable areas of the country or even state for that matter... One could go to North Dakota get a job and buy a house.. But no, buying a house in highly desirable areas is not reality for most.... Still can buy a house, just not in the area one may want..

This I do not believe has changed since the "old days". Some areas are just plain out of reach for certain income brackets. Always been that way.
i almost agree. i DID buy a house in what i consider an undesirable area. i am working. i still can no longer afford the house.
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Old 08-15-2012, 12:22 PM
 
Location: Conejo Valley, CA
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Silly user ... of course I know you don't care ... and of course: I'm not telling you, in particular ... I am making open comments to anyone reading this thread ... merely using your comments as reference for general conversation.
Alright, so in the future I'll just skip it....

Not going to bother commenting about the military, but I get it, you have to try to rationalize and justify your passed actions. I always find your commentary ironic though....
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Old 08-15-2012, 12:22 PM
 
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I am sorry that you didn't "get it". The ballpark theory is one reason we have record foreclosures.

All that followed in your post is exactly what you are complaining about. Such negativity.
"Ballpark theory" doesn't have a damn thing to do with record foreclosures.

The majority of people losing their homes are people who have lost their income source ... due to the overall crash of the economy -- triggered by the bursting of of home values that were falsely inflated by nefarious intent to defraud -- which fraud was carried out with considerable deliberation by a relatively small sub-culture of financial geniuses and their witless political tools.

As for "negativity"? Read your own damn posts.
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