Not to pry, but are you a member of a church? There are many that have marriage classes/retreats that can be great, even if you are not a member. Like anything both people have to be willing.
I had my share of counselling in a previous marriage and I found that the group discussions and humor in classes was much more effective.
Just a thought...what do I know? I'm on my 4th and final marriage. Going on 10 happy years now