I'm not in Charlotte. First, you have to know what you have. If it's a GIA or AGS graded diamond, or even EGL, that's great. Savvy buyers will know what those labs are. If it's IGI or some other obscure lab that the mall jewelers, use, you will probably take a bath selling it. If it's an average mall stone, then probably try to consign it or sell it locally is your best bet. Or just walk it around to all the pawn shops and used jewelry buyers and take the best offer.
Sell the diamond and the setting separately: May buyers look for a used mounting for a CZ or Moissanite or colored stone, but they won't want a complete used e-ring.
Mount the diamond in a expensive mounting and sell it as a pendant is another strategy. You just have to determine how much effort and expense do you want to to go to. If it's an average mall store ring, then most Internet buyers won't want that because they are looking for better, like AGS 000 or GIA 3X stones.
ebay will take 15% in fees and
that is charged on the total with shipping. Plus you have to write an air-tight description to avoid buyer claiming "not as described." I advise read the ebay Community board "Seller Central" to see what scams du jour the fraudulent buyers are running. If you have a local shop that will consign for you on ebay, that might be a possibility but you're going to lose more than 15% because they will add their own fees.
Here are online resources:
Pricescope.com - join, and there's a Preloved Jewels forum there
They now have a "sell your diamond" link under Resources. (That offers the diamond to the PS vendors, quietly, nad they will not offer you more than wholesale on it. Perhaps less. Some are only interested in GIA 3X or AGS 000 stones.)
High Performance News for Consumer’s Guide To Reselling Diamonds
more private sale options:
diamondbistro.com
loupetroop.com
consign online:
Good Old Gold in NY
LoveAffairDiamonds
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