Have a couple questions about Christianity (woman, Jesus, Bible, Matthew)
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I recently met a lady and fell in love with her we are both Christians her alittle more then me. She is married and getting a divorce and I am divorsed. We both know it would be wrong for us to have sex while she is still married but it it wrong for her to love me? and is it wrong for us to share a bed? When I ask her all she says is I'm married and its wrong I don't understand why it is wrong. Please help me understand?
I recently met a lady and fell in love with her we are both Christians her alittle more then me. She is married and getting a divorce and I am divorsed. We both know it would be wrong for us to have sex while she is still married but it it wrong for her to love me? and is it wrong for us to share a bed? When I ask her all she says is I'm married and its wrong I don't understand why it is wrong. Please help me understand?
Think with the correct head and you might understand.
I recently met a lady and fell in love with her we are both Christians her alittle more then me. She is married and getting a divorce and I am divorsed. We both know it would be wrong for us to have sex while she is still married but it it wrong for her to love me? and is it wrong for us to share a bed? When I ask her all she says is I'm married and its wrong I don't understand why it is wrong. Please help me understand?
Some of your question is already answered by yourself:
Q:would be wrong for us to have sex while she is still married ? A: We both know it would be wrong for us to have sex while she is still married.
Q: is it wrong for her to love me? A: Is it your intent to listen \ follow what God spoke about divorce that is found in the Bible ?
Q: Please help me understand? A: This is a case of where the truth is not found in feelings or in some "voice" that we are to listen to from inside of us. ( or crude \ unwholesome advice previously given)
.........The truth that your seeking from God is found only in the Bible.
Q: is it wrong for us to share a bed? A: We both know it would be wrong for us to have sex while she is still married.
A: it would be wrong to have sex while you two are not married.
I recently met a lady and fell in love with her we are both Christians her alittle more then me. She is married and getting a divorce and I am divorsed. We both know it would be wrong for us to have sex while she is still married but it it wrong for her to love me? and is it wrong for us to share a bed? When I ask her all she says is I'm married and its wrong I don't understand why it is wrong. Please help me understand?
Even without sex you are lusting and coveting your neighbor's wife.
Some of your question is already answered by yourself:
Q:would be wrong for us to have sex while she is still married ? A: We both know it would be wrong for us to have sex while she is still married.
Q: is it wrong for her to love me? A: Is it your intent to listen \ follow what God spoke about divorce that is found in the Bible ?
Q: Please help me understand? A: This is a case of where the truth is not found in feelings or in some "voice" that we are to listen to from inside of us. ( or crude \ unwholesome advice previously given)
.........The truth that your seeking from God is found only in the Bible.
Q: is it wrong for us to share a bed? A: We both know it would be wrong for us to have sex while she is still married.
A: it would be wrong to have sex while you two are not married.
I recently met a lady and fell in love with her we are both Christians her alittle more then me. She is married and getting a divorce and I am divorsed. We both know it would be wrong for us to have sex while she is still married but it it wrong for her to love me? and is it wrong for us to share a bed? When I ask her all she says is I'm married and its wrong I don't understand why it is wrong. Please help me understand?
Don't answer the question here, but ask yourself, and ask her why she is getting divorced. And why are you divorced? Again, don't answer here as it's no one business, but just ask yourself. Then consider Matthew 19:9.
Jesus said Matthew 19:9 'And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.''
Then ask yourself if what Jesus said matters to you and to her. And read the whole passage, Matthew 19:1-9.
Rom. 7:2-3 - For the married woman is bound by law to her husband while he is living; but if her husband dies, she is released from the law concerning the husband. So then, if while her husband is living she is joined to another man, she shall be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from the law, so that she is not an adulteress though she is joined to another man.
So both of you are already of course.
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When I ask her all she says is I'm married and its wrong I don't understand why it is wrong. Please help me understand?
Why put yourself in a position of temptation? You just want to share a bed - for what? Examine yourself honestly.
By your words you'll be forgiven ,or by your words you'll be condemned.
Don't worry you are not saved any way.Christians do not keep the son of mans commands or walk in the light.
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