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Old 07-23-2019, 10:26 AM
 
Location: The Eastern Shore
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Yes. With their spouse. Sex is not a bad thing. It's a good thing.
Sex doesn't magically become bad if you aren't married, BF. As long as there is no abuse, and people are smart about it, it is a magical thing, though.

 
Old 07-23-2019, 10:29 AM
 
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Sex doesn't magically become bad if you aren't married, BF. As long as there is no abuse, and people are smart about it, it is a magical thing, though.
God has said differently. This being the "Christianity" board, it would seem self-evident that we'd want to defer to him on the topic. If you wish to not identify as a Christian and make up your own rules as you go, that's up to you. But he created us, he defines the rules, and he blessed the sexual relationship between a husband and wife. Jesus also affirmed that in the New Testament.
 
Old 07-23-2019, 10:49 AM
 
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Yes. With their spouse. Sex is not a bad thing. It's a good thing.
So, isn't it fantastic that gays can marry now?!! They can have good sex with their spouses.
 
Old 07-23-2019, 10:51 AM
 
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God has said differently. This being the "Christianity" board, it would seem self-evident that we'd want to defer to him on the topic. If you wish to not identify as a Christian and make up your own rules as you go, that's up to you. But he created us, he defines the rules, and he blessed the sexual relationship between a husband and wife. Jesus also affirmed that in the New Testament.
You keep confusing what a god-thing said with what ancient, anonymous, barbaric men said.
 
Old 07-23-2019, 10:59 AM
 
Location: The Eastern Shore
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God has said differently. This being the "Christianity" board, it would seem self-evident that we'd want to defer to him on the topic. If you wish to not identify as a Christian and make up your own rules as you go, that's up to you. But he created us, he defines the rules, and he blessed the sexual relationship between a husband and wife. Jesus also affirmed that in the New Testament.
Yea, if your version of god is so small that he cares so much about what I do with my privates with another consenting adult, married or not, he isn't worth my time.

I lived with my husband for over 5 years before getting married. Guess those 5 years really ticked off your version of God, huh?
 
Old 07-23-2019, 11:04 AM
 
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Yea, if your version of god is so small that he cares so much about what I do with my privates with another consenting adult, married or not, he isn't worth my time.

I lived with my husband for over 5 years before getting married. Guess those 5 years really ticked off your version of God, huh?
Completely silly, isn't it?

The Omni-Max Creator of the Universe(s) is keeping a list of who does what with their naughty bits.

What a tiny-minded little god-thing -- not to mention a salacious voyeur.
 
Old 07-23-2019, 11:10 AM
 
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If that was all it was meant for, why would it feel SOOOO good, homenj? Maybe that is the only reason for you to have sex, but certainly not the VAST majority of people in this world.



No, it means exactly that. If you only have sex to procreate, your sex life is terrible. Plain and simple. You don't enjoy a good sex life if that is all there is to it.
What about those of us who are past the procreation point? Are we supposed to just stop because we can't reproduce anymore?

I bet it could be even SCARIER for some people to think about older people doin' the nasty than about gay people. Clutch the pearls!
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Old 07-23-2019, 11:15 AM
 
Location: The Eastern Shore
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So, isn't it fantastic that gays can marry now?!! They can have good sex with their spouses.
Yes, that is so much better, right? They can have good, married sex.

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You keep confusing what a god-thing said with what ancient, anonymous, barbaric men said.
Exactly, Trout. Exactly. Not to mention all the different types of sex and couplings the Bible allows, which people like BF would be against. Hypocrites. Period.
 
Old 07-23-2019, 11:17 AM
 
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Completely silly, isn't it?

The Omni-Max Creator of the Universe(s) is keeping a list of who does what with their naughty bits.

What a tiny-minded little god-thing -- not to mention a salacious voyeur.
Right? I mean, why would the all-powerful being care who I have sex with? It is very silly.

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What about those of us who are past the procreation point? Are we supposed to just stop because we can't reproduce anymore?

I bet it could be even SCARIER for some people to think about older people doin' the nasty than about gay people. Clutch the pearls!
Exactly. Why would God want you to stop having sex just because you can't have babies anymore? Or simply don't want anymore?

Personally, I don't ever think of others having sex. Gay, straight, young, or old. Just not something I worry myself with like the fundies on here.
 
Old 07-23-2019, 11:37 AM
 
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Right? I mean, why would the all-powerful being care who I have sex with? It is very silly.



Exactly. Why would God want you to stop having sex just because you can't have babies anymore? Or simply don't want anymore?

Personally, I don't ever think of others having sex. Gay, straight, young, or old. Just not something I worry myself with like the fundies on here.
Or don't want any in the first place? My daughter does not want children and has done what she had to do to ensure that it never happens, and that wasn't a decision to be celibate.
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