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Originally Posted by JulianH
Not trying to be offensive to you, RabiSankor, but it's possible that you could be being a little overly self-conscious about it and women are picking up on it. Believe it or not, confidence and a positive attitude can go a long way
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I completely agree with this.
I'm an Indian guy myself, I lived in San Francisco for a couple years. I never really found women there to be unwilling to date Indian guys or any other guys due to ethnicity. I dated a white girl there for a few months, and I knew other Indian guys who dated non-Indian girls as well. While some women aren't attracted to certain peoples, most really don't care what race or ethnicity you are. San Francisco is one of the best places an Indian guy can be for interracial dating. In regards to the other cities you are interested in, I've also lived in Chicago, New York, and spent a few months in LA and dating won't be any different from San Francisco in these three cities.
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Originally Posted by RabiSankor
I have tried to chat it up with women at bars and such but most have said that they do not see Indian men in that light and some even say "don't your parents handle the marriage part for you".
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Are you bringing up dating and marriage right off the bat at bars? If you are, you might just be scaring women away.
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Originally Posted by RabiSankor
Also, compared to women in other states, in terms of looks women here aren't as attractive either.
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Honestly, I think the problem just might be you. You don't seem to have the best attitude towards women there. Women will sense this. It could be a multitude of other reasons, I have no clue what your personality is like or how you approach women. But lets just say that the friendly, confident, positive, and funny Indian guys I know in the Bay Area have no problems when it comes to dating non-Indian women. Being Indian in the Bay Area (or most big cities for that matter) is not some sort of handicap or disability when it comes to dating.
If you leave the Bay Area for this specific reason, then you'll likely be disappointed in other cities where dating is likely going to be no different, or possibly worse. My point is, the problem isn't San Francisco or the Bay Area as far as interracial dating is concerned.